I just started talkin to this dude and I do like him, the problem is he have a very bad reputation, he's been in jail, sells, smoke, and all that stuff of that nature. I'm not gonna front and say i don't want to be with him bcuz i do like him very much. he gets me stuff when i ask for it but i kno where the money is comin from and it's not coming from the right place. I know what he's really about, sex and money, but i do care for him even though i'm not down with all that. can yall please help me and i thank you ahead of time for reading this cuz i kno it's long but i do need to get my point across. one thing to mention, i'm 14 in the 8th grade and he's 15 in the 6th grade (because of being in jail)
2006-11-21 10:07:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MOVE ON. THERE ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE. DONT RUIN YOUR LIFE FOR THIS GANGSTA, hey wait thats me.
2006-11-21 10:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be involved with someone who will ruin your life too soon. If he is like this now, what will your future look like? Seems you need to concentrate more on school then on boys, expecially the wrong ones. He will end up getting you in trouble in the future, and another thing....the things he gets you is all material, love is what really gets you through. If you really care about him, and if he feels the same for you, try talking him out of being a "bad boy". He will not have any future if he is already been locked up.
2006-11-21 10:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things down the road for you if you stay with this guy.
1) pregnancy and/or
2) drug addiction.
Trust me smarter than you have been caught in the trap. And a lot of people have been caught up in and made to pay for another's lawbreaking.
Sweetheart if you want to claim a good future thats yours if you stay on the straight, you need to find a guy that believes in the same things you do. The call of the Bad Boy is strong but you have to be just as strong and resist. Its for your own good. And I know you know I'm right.
2006-11-21 10:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Geeze! Honey, leave that bad boy alone! You're way to young to be getting serious about this guy and he's a juvie! He won't treat you any differently than he's treated anyone/anything else...he's a user. Stop hanging with him and remember the old saying "birds of a feather flock together"...in other words, people will think you're the same way and one way or another, he'll make sure you get in trouble. Misery loves company! Dump him and run!
2006-11-21 10:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real loser. A 15 year old 6th grader that's already been to jain and is selling drugs is probably not the kind of guy you want to bring home to meet the family.
Sounds like you know what you should do...but you don't want to. In that case, there's no point in asking the question. You've given us all of the ammunition we need to tell you to dump the guy. Since you already know it and haven't done it, you don't want to.
2006-11-21 10:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answers you are going to get. This guy needs to grow up!! Obvious he is not the guy you want to be around or you will end up in jail with him. You seem to have a better head on your shoulders than that, don't let this guy bring you down, you can do better for yourself!! Trust me.
2006-11-21 10:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MISS THING!!!! WTF IS UR PROBLEM!?!?! 1st of all he aint even a man! he's a flippin jit and so are U! a 15yr old aint no real dealer (sh!t, if u wanna see wat real dealing looks like, come down to mah hood MIAMI, FLORIDA: over in OVERTOWN **townerz fo' lyfe**) and da fact dat he's been in jail dont make him tough at all... he just doin petty sh!t to seem like a bad @$$ but HE AINT.... and ur 14! focus on skool more than on these lil wannabe thugz ok.. cuz da truth is an education is gonna put money in da bank FOREVA not a guy!
2006-11-21 10:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by noey2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, because you can always find someone to buy you things and when you get older the things get better
2006-11-21 10:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and join his 'losers club'! You'll soon find yourself mixed up in his mess and go down the same path he is.......
2006-11-21 10:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to even be in this situation. are your parents aware of this??
2006-11-21 10:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by sweetness01201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋