If you KNOW your girlfriend is sensitive about a certain subject/topic, I mean anything whether you understand it or not, would you ever make jokes about it just to get her to feel uncomfortable, but just because you think it's funny?
If you do, would that be considered INSENSITIVE?
Please explain your answer. Thanks.
[I guess girls can answer too..]
2006-11-21 09:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if i made her feel uncomfortable i'd hug her in front of everyone n then tell her how beautiful she is n then kiss her n then keep her in my arms..
2006-11-21 09:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very insensitive...
First off, if I was with a girl and knew something made her feel uncomfortable I would not make jokes about it. A guy should treat you with enough respect not to bring it up. I think some guys were born with a missing "sensitive" gene...anyway, he makes the rest of us look bad!
A guy should tell the women he loves that he loves her at least once everyday, and kiss her everytime he leaves or comes back home...he should bring her flowers for no reason and make her breakfast in bed! He should not make her feel bad, bring up issues or topics that are sensitive to her unless its in a good conversation and to show he cares, he shoul not joke at your expense and try his best to make you glow whenever he can...
Hehe...sorry my sensitive guy rant...it just bugs me because it does make us all look bad!
2006-11-21 10:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres been occasion where I've teased over a certain subject/topic ... but I make sure she knows I'm just teasing ... and yes occasionally it's taken the wrong way or she gets upset ... then I feel like a heel
It's all a part of knowing each other ... she teases me in the same way sometimes
To each of us it seems funny at the time but you have to be careful not to overstep the boundaries
2006-11-21 09:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I have. It is insensitive. Some times it is a lame attempt at trying to get you to lighten up about it or get you to think it is no big deal. Other times, we are just being jerky and like seeing you get all riled (sp?) up. I don't know why.
If you calmly tell him how it makes you feel when he jokes about it and ask him if he likes seeing you hurt, he will probably feel bad and quit. If not, or you have already done this and nothing has changed, F-him and find someone nicer.
2006-11-21 10:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I tend to Avoid any questions from my girl friends because they seam to be trick questions. No mater how you answer them you are wrong. But if I knew that my girl friend was sensitive to something I would avoid that subject until i did research on the subject. I would have to agree with you on the insensitive part.
If your girl friend is happy than you are happy. That is why I try to please them in any I can and it comes back to me even better. you know the old saying do unto others as you would have them do unto you
2006-11-21 10:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by yp_kevin_eagle_river 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew it would make her feel uncomfortable I flat out would not joke about any sensitive subject. I think that is very rude. I wouldn't want to make a girl feel uncomfortalbe or feel bad if I liked her.
2006-11-21 09:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by chris k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be pretty insensitive, but he probably doesn't realize how much it bothers you. I wouldn't do that now, but I did in the past, but it was because I was trying to understand what was going on since I didn't think it was such a big deal. That may be all that's going on.
2006-11-21 09:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I make jokes but not to make her uncomfortable simply to get her to see that it doesn't matter and maybe even get her over her insecurities. If I see the joke does make her uncomfortable than I'll stop
2006-11-21 09:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry I'm a girl but the answer is NO he'd do the following:
Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
Well good luck, I hope he loves you!~Alison
2006-11-21 09:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by luvracin_ia2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it MIGHT be "insensitive" unless you are being "oversensitive"
if it's a really traumatic thing in a persons life then yes, joking about it would be insensitive.
he might be trying to get you to "lighten-up" about something he thinks you are too concerned about- hard to say.
You should, at least, make sure HE understands.
2006-11-21 10:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking about her weight how she looks or how her hair is done can b insensitive but u also have 2 b honest like say u say what r u wearing today!?! she'll think u say she's ugly and has bad stlye but dont say it looks great just say does it matter u always look great!
2006-11-21 09:58:47 · answer #11 · answered by alkarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋