Sometimes I still think about my ex even know we got in a huge fight and he really hurt me Ive moved on and everything but once in a while I think about what we used to have.I am never going to get with him again for all the things he did to me,but I really need to know why I still think about him,I keep telling my self i hate him but i dont think i do.The worst thing is ,is that he is my neighbor and I sometimes see him with other girls which makes me jealous.I hate feeling that way and I know I really need to move on but Its still hard.
2006-11-21 09:48:57 · 15 answers · asked by yummybebe_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not alone. Alot of women (and men) still feel something for their ex after a breakup. Its ok to think about your ex and the things you used to do. And yes seeing him with other girls may make you jealous. I think its apart of human nature to still be affected when you shared something special with someone (or even loved). Even if they turned out to be a jerk. The most important thing is to not those thoughts and feelings consume you and effect your everyday life. Let your experience with him be a lesson to you to figure out what you don't want in a relationship. Don't beat yourself up about thinking about him but use your feelings to make better decision in the future.
2006-11-21 10:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by SpeedygirlGT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you answer these you will know the answer.
1.If he asked you to be with him again would you agree?
2.Would you do anything to change the past?
3.Would you wish if you can be with him?
4.If he says he has no interest in you would you be heartbroken?
5.If you can change your emotions, would it be to stop lingering after him?
Top five Questions from me
If each are yes then it means you still love him.
If there is some nos you just want to at least try to get along with him more.
If its all nos then you got nothing for him.
2006-11-21 17:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by moonhee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a long time to get over a guy if you really cared about him. I had my heart broken when I was 18. It tore me apart and took me a couple of years to get over. I moved on and married and it has been 14 years, but every now and then I still think of him, because a small piece of him will always be in my heart.
2006-11-21 17:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by MRod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling this way because you are human thats all. That is why we have emotions. The best way I found on how to deal with this is to keep yourself very busy and tell yourself that is was a part of your life but is no longer. Reach out to your friends/family.Remember that it is not forever,this is just a process WE all go thru when there is heartbreak!!! You will be fine!!!
2006-11-21 17:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by HummerBabemv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're human. We can't shut our emotions off with a switch. It's perfectly normal to have residual feelings for your ex... lord knows I still do for mine and we've been apart for over a year. I don't have to problem you do of seeing him all the time, but I do still think about him and regret that it didn't work out. Then I think about what a childish jerk he was and I shake it off.
Eventually it'll lessen, just be strong. And maybe think about moving. (j/k)
2006-11-21 17:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to move on, Its hard noone says its easy...And plus you seem him around which makes it worst. You need to hang out with your friedns more, have fun and in time you will be past him...Best of luck!!!
2006-11-21 17:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by caringloving4you_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u need to do is just get over him and find someone else. there are plenty of people out there that are alot better than him im sure. if you have any more questions or coments email me back at clcdez@yahoo.com. from dezzie dawn
2006-11-21 17:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by dezzie dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't stop feeling this way unil you meet someone else and create new thoughts, feelings and memories. Just keep putting yourself out there.
2006-11-21 17:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Everlong44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, dont know what it is, maybe you just miss someone to do all the special things with??/ You probably want get over it until you find someone better, how makes you happier....
2006-11-21 17:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though u broke up, u fell like u still have a part of him. every time you feel that way, just tell urself why you broke up and that he is not worth it.
2006-11-21 17:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋