Why is this hapining to me?

Question

How come almost everything bad you can think of is happinging to me why arn;t things getting better, It all started in grade 6 and now i'm in grade nine...almost commited suicide.....took up singing to drown the pain, well more like took singing more seriously. Anywayz as a rezult I want to become a singer and ever since I made that decigion and (prayed to god) that this would be my destiny everything bad started happinging again I can't figure it out.... why????????

Answer 1

You need to find out what the pain is coming from and stop it. Don't try to drown the pain out, because in the end, the pain is still there, even if u only realize that when you're having a bad time. Since you believe in God, you should pray for strength and healing. Pray like u really mean it. God will hear your prayers, all u have to do is really believe that it will happen. If u put God as your main focus, all this pain will begin to fade away, and you will have happiness. Now don't get me wrong, u will still have bad times because we all are human and make mistakes, and have to deal with others mistakes, but I guarantee that you will at least have the strength to get through those times. Your life is very precious, do not commit suicide. Everyone has bad times, but its those bad times and how u deal with them that makes u a stronger person or a weaker person. God bless.

Answer 2

Well saying you have problems doesn't give anyone the ability to help you. You kinda need to be specific. Don't need to give details but what kinds of things are happening?

Unfortunately, there usually isn't a reason that bad things happen. Life is full of bad experiences, and good ones too. As depressing as they are, you've got to use those bad experiences to learn from them and become a stronger person. This will help you deal with the problems that come along in the future.

The thing is, and please don't take it as an insult, you're very young. You're growing up and you have a lot of feelings you don't know how to deal with. This happens to most people, and it's perfectly ok! The best way to deal with these things is to find someone to talk to. Unless you're drastically different from other teenagers, I know it's really hard to talk to your parents about this stuff. I suggest giving it a shot though. What they say probably won't make things better but it will at least let them know that you need their support and understanding.

Your friends are a good place to start, but chances are they're just as old as you are and haven't had the experience they would need to help themselves, much less you. The good thing is that you would have someone to share your feelings with, at the very least. Sometimes just being able to do that makes you feel better.

The next step is to talk to a counselor. It might seem lame, but they're there to help you. They went to school and went through training so they could help people like you through your problems. It's hard to open up to an adult, especially to one you don't know, but if you're willing to help yourself feel better it's something you should consider.

I see that you prayed. That's a good thing for you to do. I'm not a religious person, but I went to Catholic school for the entire duration of my elementary through high school education. Prayer is going to help you get through a lot of tough times in your life, but don't stop there. If you go to mass, try talking to the priest/minister/etc. You'd probably be surprised how much they can help you. Try reading the Bible. People put far too much emphasis on following exactly what it says and all that, but there are a lot of good stories that are going to help you understand God's love for you and help you cope with your pain.

You love to sing? That's awesome! I've always admired good singers, it's something I always wished I could do but unfortunately I don't have the pipes for it. Right now if that's what you want to do, go for it. Make every attempt to involve yourself in singing. The more you do it, the more you're going to understand how you feel about it. If you like it, you're probably going to keep doing it. If you don't, you'll probably stop.

I sincerely doubt bad things are happening to you because you want to be a singer. Again, because you didn't really give any details I can't be sure. There are always going to be problems, but if singing is something you enjoy then no matter what bad things are happening you at least have ONE thing you love, right?

Feel free to email me if you need to talk about it more.

Answer 3

The most you can do is look for 4 leaf clovers and go to church and try to make it seem like someone else's fault. But you shouldn't kill yourself because you'll go to hell. And think happy thoughts.

Answer 4

life always seems like its not going to get better. I'm 26 have four kids and just now got out of the fast food industry, I am in a ton of debt, but i know it will get better, not because of god, he does not exist, but because i am changing my ways of life. I stopped believing in god and good things started happening to me

Answer 5

hahaha u think u got bad luck. u don't even wanna know bout my life and my tough luck.. u'll get used to it.. i've faced so much physical and emotional pain its beyond depressing at this point..