the guy im in love with became like my best friend for a while. he told me everything and totally trusted me. then out of nowhere i found out he'd told me a lie to find out if i'd spread it. i confronted him, he said i was just angry coz i looked like a tit in front of everyone because i had told some people. naturally, i just lost it. i had what he termed a 'bitchfit'.
now he hates me and won't talk to me. i don't know why. everytime i try to approach him and talk to him he walks away.
i still love him and i dont knw what to do.
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advice...please?
2006-11-21 09:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was testing you to see if you could be trusted, and flipping out prolly didn't help either. Just lay low for awhile. Whenever he walks by act, sad and depressed. He'll eventually ask whats Wrong and start talking to you again. Sounds Weird, I know but just trust me it works. Hope this helps^^
2006-11-21 09:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone trusts you enough to tell you an important secret, they expect you to keep it. If you betray that trust, you have to deal with the consequences. He probably heard some things that he told you in confidence before and this was a test that you failed. There is nothing for you to do but apologize both for betraying him and then for having a fit when you were caught. Maybe he will forgive you, but he may not trust you for a long time.
2006-11-21 09:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this happened to me 2 years ago. I love a guy named Jack now but I used to love sumone name Stephen. He was always insulting me and calling me names. Ya know what I did? I GOT THE GUY NAMED JACK WHO IM WITH NOW! Find another guy!
2006-11-21 09:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the hairy BallZ. make him SUFFER. and then be nice..
I dont know if it will help but that'll learn him. Take him down a peg or two and then if he still wants you make him EARN your trust. Tell him that you wont just let him check you off the
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2006-11-21 09:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go up to him n if he walks away follow him and he will have to listen and say your sorry and that you really like him to give you another chance
2006-11-21 09:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by !!!!!kAsEy jAdE!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and keep secrets to your self.
2006-11-21 09:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by quileter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋