i hve been on yahoo chat for about two years now,few months ago i met a gal in my regular chat room, we have been talking to her in pm's ever since. i have seen her on cam and heard her voice and she has seen me.my problem is i am in love with her and i don't know what to do. though she only lives 30 miles away i realy want to meet her but the thing is i know she is only cybering with me, she's allways jokeing and teaseing meand i don't have the courage to tell her how i feel about her as i know she will only laugh about it. so how do i resolve this between us, as i know if i carry on feeling this way about her i will end up getting hurt. am i takeing yahoo chat too seriously and should i just log of chat for good and forget about her. pls help im realy confused?
2006-11-21 09:45:43 · 15 answers · asked by mr.truth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't waste your time buddy, there are a few ppl in chat are there to cause misery to others, there are a lot of very decent ppl too, but this gal you describe is just taeking you for a ride,dump her.
2006-11-21 20:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think you're in love with someone you saw on web cam and heard her voice but never really met her? I think those are just thoughts and images that you feel in love with, not the actually person. You are taking this way 2 serious!! You don't have to log off for good, just get control of yourself, man!! 30 miles is in between you and what could be so either arrange the meeting or forget about her!!
2006-11-21 09:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live that close, ask to meet you for lunch or something casual. You don't have to tell her how you feel, you could be meeting as friends, maybe more. Once you are together, you can gauge how she feels. Maybe she has feelings about you too. If not, you had a good meal, got to meet her and nothing came of it other than a friendship.
2006-11-21 09:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't love! You are only infatuated with her. Sorry I know it's confusing, infatuation can feel like love. But you can't have true love with someone you never met. Maybe you will get to meet her one day, and then when you get to know each other more fully, you will love her truly. But for now just relax about it...... you can let her know you "like" her or are very "interested in getting to know her better"- but you are right NOT to say the word "love!" Hope this helps!
2006-11-21 10:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by darkrose_09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may just be in love with the image you see on your screen. If you do meet in public you may be diasppointed so don't set yourself up so high. Ask her is she would be interested in meeting in person in the near futureShe may be just doing what she is in there to do ,chatting!! Good Luck
2006-11-21 09:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by HummerBabemv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you Know she's only cybering with you? Ask her to meet you somewhere. The really important things in life always start out scary..
2006-11-21 09:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yet another violation: attending to the element "The above is an ideal answer to the aforementioned hypothetical question, if certainly that's a question, as in line with the words and circumstances set forth by the trolls at Yahoo." Amen and Glory Be!
2016-10-04 05:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that problem once too. dont EVER go out with someone online! i did that during this years summer...i met a guy named Jake...i thought he was sweet, but one day he turned on me! those things never work out. youll always get your feelings hurt. just forget about her, trust me its for the best.
2006-11-21 09:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Chanea S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fish or cut bait, I like to say. Either meet her in person, or get off the computer. If she won't meet you, log off and forget it.
2006-11-21 09:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel and tell her your serious about it. if she says she dont want to b with you dont forget there are alot more people close to you that you could fall in love with. if she says no dont just forget about her cuz she might change her mind later.
2006-11-21 09:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋