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ok it all happend like this i broke up with my girlfriend yesterday, but i feel that i still love her, like she tells me that she still loves and cares for me, but shes confused if she wants to get back together.. but we still like talk the way we use to she even still sings to me and says cute lines, i do the same to her but then why is she confused about getting back together with me, is there any way to change how she feels?? like can i do anything to change it shes only 14 and im 15 btw thanks alot!

2006-11-21 09:35:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

Time usually heals all wounds, and certainly at your ages, you both have plenty of time to heal and get back together again. Good luck.

Chow!!

2006-11-21 09:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0 0

Do you think she still loves you?
Do you treat her well like:
Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
and does she still flurt with you?
How you get a guy to like you! (a wemons way of flurting)
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
Good luck and FOLLOW YOUR HEART~Alison~

2006-11-21 17:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by luvracin_ia2 2 · 0 0

okay, i remember puppy love, it is still genuine. Why did you guys break up? Remember, you broke up with her for a reason. Think about it long and hard. If it was a stupid reason to break up and you still want to be with her ask her why she is confused? If she says she does not know why she is confused, then you might as well cut all ties with her. Either she knows or she doesn't. You will only hurt yourself more by standing around "wanting". GOOD LUCK!

2006-11-21 17:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by mumof4 2 · 0 0

Honey, you only broke up with her yesterday, not a year ago. Get a grip, you are both very young. Take some time to enjoy being single, if you two are truly in love are are meant to be together, you will be.

2006-11-21 17:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by mihalicmj 2 · 0 0

14 and 15...explains a lot

first off, she probably needs room to breathe, and if you feel like she's warming back up to you just ask her where she still stands. Communication is what's key here, she might've been confused but maybe she has thought it through, i don't know.

Best thing to do is just have an honest chat with her, and ask her what she wants to do

2006-11-21 17:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kurt 3 · 0 0

Mike,,,,, You got along way to go buddy.

Its normal to feel in love when your that young, But the god's honest truth is that sooner or later you both will go your seperate ways, whether it be college, high school, or anything. I am 26 years old and just now got engaged, And i remember all those feelings at that age. It's tough i know but you just have to put everything in perspective. My advice is, dont go through high school with just one girl. Date around and have fun man cause it all ends soon.

2006-11-21 17:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by rydoggg22 2 · 0 0

you're young but now's as good a time as any to learn that breaking up is really hard. you have to be 100% sure that breaking up is what you want bc if you tell a girl you want to break up with her, but then 2 weeks later want to get back with, how is she ever going to know you're serious again. i think trust is lost and that might be why she's confused. she doesnt know if she can deal with the hurt if you tell her you want to break up down the line. i know how you feel, i've been trying to break up with my gf for a year now but everytime i do, 2 weeks later i miss her alot so i try and get her back and usually i do and were happy until the next time we break up. i also have been noticing that its getting harder and harder to get her back. my advise is: make up your mind and stick with. trust me it sounds easier than it is but i think thats the only way to do. now if only i could do the same.....goodluck either way

2006-11-21 17:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by abby 2 · 0 0

You are fifteen, as one High Schooler to another, break ups are good. They make you move on and get over people faster. Plus you never know who else is out there. Take the chance to go out with another person while you still can.

2006-11-21 17:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

K i went through the same thing a month ago, if shes confussed then shes trying to decide weather or not she should put her heart on the line again u already broke it once so re assure her that u wont do it again!

2006-11-21 17:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by airforcebeauty06 2 · 0 1

It takes time man...

I totally understand what you mean. Try to forget her, but sometimes it will be hard for you to have her as a friend. The best thing you need to do is to tell her the truth again or just leave her and never talk to her again.

2006-11-21 17:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by JimiHendrix 1 · 1 0

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