There's this girl in my grade, and, yes, I like her. She really really loves poetry and, as it turns out, I happen to be a poet. Now, I've been giving her poetry for the last 2 months, every Friday and I've been using a alias, "Mr.Morose". The poems are light, kind of flirting with her but not going all out " I love you" poems. She really enjoys them, I can tell -- though I hardly see or talk to her because she's in none of my classes, but I've seen her read 3 or 4 poems and I see her smiling all the time, and my friends know and they see her really enjoying them too. Her 2 best friends of all time are in all my classes though and every Friday that's all they'll talk about with her and each other. They're really excited about it and they even came up to me asked if I knew who "Mr.Morose" was because, and I don't mean to brag but, I am, and no one will argue this, the best poet in the school.
2006-11-21 09:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't say yes nor did I say no -- it was more like, "let me see...wow, who was this sent to?...her? man, this guy must really like her" But even the best needs a little help. Now, this Friday comes something different. The poem will be heavy. I already have a quint little verse that lets her know that it is I who write these poems -- it pretty obvious -- I'm planning to use it as, kinda a footnote for a larger poem but I don't know what to write for the larger poem. I really, really like her. How much? Well, my English teacher found out about the poems (dunno how) and she knew I used "Mr.Morose" She didn't say anything to the girl I liked but she did come up to me and say "you like her, huh?" and I shyly said "yeah..." then the teacher said "a little more than 'like'?" and I replied, and I don't suggest you say this to your teacher who you see everyday, but I said "a little less than 'love'" So that's how much I like her.
2006-11-21 09:33:20 · update #1
Now I have 2 questions. QUESTION ONE: First, I need support. I dunno if she likes me. I know she likes my poetry and she knows I can be sweet but she doesn't know ME. And I don't what her to lose all that joy she had from the poems because I was the one who wrote them. Should I still tell her? QUESTION TWO (more important): what should I say? I have been thinking about this for 2 weeks now and have only shreds of poetic things. I know it should come from MY heart but I really need help. If you could post maybe poems you know of that says "I will die for you" I would be eternally greatful. Better still, good phrases for that would be so good.
Please do not only say to come up with the poem myself, I know it's ethically wrong, but I love her so much I can't live with myself if I don't come through. Anything would be helpful at this point. Thanks.
2006-11-21 09:33:35 · update #2
Don't be so scared. You should just tell her staright up. It's the best way to do it. She'll really apprecite your bravery and be able to acknowledge that you were the talent behind the poems. Girls love it more when a shy guy can tell her that he's in to her.
2006-11-21 09:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by cambosoup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do thins yourself...if not it isn't the same. Write a poem from your heart and most importantly you really, really have to talk to her. Shy or not think of all the epic stories of tradegy that show what happens to torn love...Romeo and Juliet type stories...well guess what if you don't talk to her then you'll be losing out big time. Think of it this way, if you talk with her you've got a 50% shot at a date, if not you've got nothing.
This is always tough especially when your young, but believe me love can happen in the oddest and strangest ways and most people love more then once in there lives. If you are lucky enough to find one true love then you're doing better then most of us!
2006-11-21 17:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gonna find out the truth about you eventually better tell her now. If she likes the poems she'll like the person they came from. I'm not going to tell you to come up with something for yourself(although you should cause you''ll feel guilty about it later if you don't, i've done it) but maybe if you sit down and think about what you like about her so much- the feelings, sights, sounds, smells... and not try so hard to sound good. yet feel about her what you do on the paper in words. i'd give you some of my poetry but i don't have it in front of me. sorry
goodluck
2006-11-21 17:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by krys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definantly tell her it is you. Not only will regret it but so will she if she doesn't find out who you are. It is always better to put a face with what she is reading. I don't think she will be disappointed. Now what you should send her I can't help you with I don't do poetry so I can't help you. Sorry!
2006-11-21 17:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by iamwashu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One: you should tell her,if she hasn't figured it out by now!Two:Poetry is from the heart and takes thought of the mind!I think you've done real well from what you've told here so make a poetic introduction. Don't be scared,those feelings keep us from doing alot of things we are good at and would truly benefit from!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-21 17:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by lee lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her it was u , u already have something in commin so used that if she is not intrested at first then tlak about poetry and go from there if it dosent work out there r a lot of fish in the sea trust me
2006-11-21 17:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by nova_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your next poem you write to her mnake a confirmation of how you feel and how she makes you feel,then in your next poem ask her out not telling her who you are just make it a neutral place like the park and you can meet her with a rose and say hi are you suprised
2006-11-21 17:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give it a shot, askher out! and if u want a poem that tells her how you love her so much ill ifnd one...here...:
A Special World
__________________
A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.
Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.
And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.
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i hope that this will work for you.
2006-11-21 17:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Chanea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her who you are because that won't make matters worse if you just tell her but if you just expects her to come running up to you telling you that'' i like you go out with me'' now that will makes matters way worse if you wait
2006-11-21 17:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by cute_thang4714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definately tell her it was you (even though she probably knows...) and i wish i could help you on what to say but im not a poet...sorry
2006-11-21 17:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋