He's been out with three women before but it only lasts 2-3 dates.
2006-11-21 09:30:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's being blocked by social programming that says, you shouldn't have a woman unless you are successful and move society forward in some way. Eventually, he will either get a high paying career and then meet woman or he will marry a fat, ugly, stupid, boring girl and spend the rest of his life being abused.
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2006-11-21 09:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad because a relationship is a great experience and he hasn't had one yet, but this doesn't make him a loser. There's a reason... either he hasn't met the right girl, isn't interested in having a relationship, is insecure or what have you. Once he finds out what that reason is he'll have a much easier time.
2006-11-21 09:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by sharky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a problem. Give it time. He should relax and be himself. The right person at the right time will come along. I had never dated any girl more than twice before I met my wife at age 22 and we clicked. She was the first woman I ever really kissed and now we have been together for 33 years. Be patient.
2006-11-21 09:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by rac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he hasn't found Mr. Right yet.
No, I'm just kidding.
It's not sad, its just different. He'll date more and build relationships when he wants to and when he finds more people he wants to date. If there is a reason, like he smells or he is very awkward, he'll figure out how to ask for advice when he is ready. It's not sad.
2006-11-21 09:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mirlane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's "sad" but maybe he hasn't found the one he's looking for. Sounds like it to me. 22 is still young, why get stuck in a 'real' relationship at that age? If I could do it over I sure wouldn't have.
2006-11-21 09:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 08:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find her and make sure you like her, tease her a little while still being friendly (do not show her thet she is in controll of you, dont kiss a** and show courtesy a bit (like pull out her chair, open doors for her while you walk in front and pick on her, but friendly and dont overdo it)
As for the kissing, after the first date, grab a bit of her hair and feel it while saying "your hair, its so soft"while looking into her eyes, then her lips, then her eyes, and if she seems happy, slowly go for the kiss (slow and passionate, not sloppy and dont pukker your lips before the kiss) (just bc she kisses you doesn't mean she wants to have sex, and dont close your eyes while kissing her
2006-11-21 09:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Scatman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not sad. 22 is too young to be in a serious relationship. Go out, have fun, live a little. Don't worry about a serious relationship yet.... it will happen when you least expect it
2006-11-21 09:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rememeber a man isnt a man until hes in love. Not what others may think im meaning. but loveing and caring. No its not sad, maybe your not out going
2006-11-21 09:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sad. Maybe just a late bloomer. And there is nothing wrong with that. Just go at your own pace.
2006-11-21 09:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋