A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time
2006-11-21 09:27:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Text him back and say you'ld like to try again on a date and see what he says.
2006-11-21 09:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are completly desperate over this guy allowing yourself to lower your standards if he doesn't like a cetain aspect about you.
sorry but just an outsiders view in you sound desperate and that can lead to munipulation in a relationship.
not saying anything like that right now. Just i noticed that in your tone, it sounds really apologetic.
But it sounds like he didn't seriously mean it, you know how guys are. They say things and don't always realize the weight behind what they say. He probably wasn't serious and there is no reason to ask for forgiveness for being a little wierd, unless you did something wrong. I don't fing beign wierd sometimes as something wrong. But NE way girl, he is happy with you, and obvioulsy wasn't serious.
As girls we always tend to be a little over analyitical, huh?
best of luck , hope he is the "one"
LOL
2006-11-21 09:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by amy-j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey whats wrong with being weird...he may still like you but the balls in your court now. Don't apologise for the way you acted, just ask him out again and show him who you really are. See how he feels about another date on a day that isn't so crazy so you can relax and be yourself. There is nothing worse then being nervous on a first date except being nervous and being stressed.
Ask him to come over and watch a movie or to go somewhere quiet so you can really talk to him, and relax and just be you...but you have to be open and forward, don't hesitate on this or he'll move on, and he may think you don't like him so just make the call ask him out and move on one way or the other!
Oh and seriuosly weird is fun...normal is boring :)
2006-11-21 09:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told half of the free world.
"I would really like to try that night out again." But do you think that you would be pressured to be different if you went out? I mean you wouldnt want him to call you "weird" again. Sounds pretty harsh that he said that anyway.
Tell him that you are feeling him but that you had a horrible thing going on with work and you had a hard time shaking it off to enjoy your eveining. Hence, let's give it another go.
2006-11-21 09:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by jeweledfruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's not that into you. He enjoyed meeting you, but that's it. Doesn't mean it has anything to do with the weird situation. OR, you could just text him again and say, "So, do you want to try again? How about Sat night?" Or something like that. Then you'll know for sure by his response how he feels about you.
2006-11-21 09:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he didnt mean your weird as in strange. maybe more noticing some little quirks. Just ask him if he would like to go out again and try to leave the quirks at the door.
2006-11-21 09:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ronnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he just had a laugh out of it n he still likes u or is interested in u.. text him back see whats up.. ask him if he wants to chill agian sometime.. of course don't use my terms of do u wanna chill.. say so would u like to go to dinner r whatever u guys r into..
2006-11-21 09:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can be weird sometimes,lol
mayb he meant it in a good way? like your different from other girls hes met.
or mayb he just doesnt see you as a gf, but mayb more just as a friend?
just call him and tell him that you're really not like that, and youd like it if you could give it a second chance, maybe ask him out :)
good luck, hope everything goes ok!
2006-11-21 09:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him asking him does he still wanna go out if he says no then forget him if he sats yes then dont act wierd again.
2006-11-21 09:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him what was going on and tell him you want to be with him. if he still wants you he will tell you if he doesnt say anything or answers like he has then tell him you would like an answer so you can move on but do it nicely.
2006-11-21 09:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by sexylove2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋