a girl who has been very loyal, caring, sweet, lets him do what he wants just to see him happy.
2006-11-21 08:40:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't kno if this will help any
but deep down men are more scared of being hurt than women are
2006-11-21 08:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by ImaGman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend in this position and the situation makes me very sad. Sometimes nice girls (and guys) get treated pretty badly because other people take advantage of them in various ways! A nice girl should be on the lookout and should assume that some men wish to take advantage of her in some way. There are wonderful, spectacular, kind men out there (I married one!), but many people are jerks.
A nice girl needs to learn to be strong, because being strong doesn't mean you can survive letting someone walk all over you. You have to stand up and say 'no' and know when to walk away! Good luck, and please contact me if you need more help, I would love to be friends.
2006-11-21 16:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygirl429019 thinks most men like bitches. WRONG!!! What guy wants to deal with a hag all the time? I'm a married man, and I'm thankful everyday that my wife is such a sweetheart.
Dump his ***. Guys like girls who are fun and friendly for the most part, so if you are in that category then find a guy who is too. Dump him by Crazy glueing his hands to his stomach (or head, or anywhere it will be painful and funny) while he's sleeping and leave a note telling him he's lucky you didn't do it to his mouth and nose.
2006-11-21 16:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by ThUmPeR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I picked up on the terms you used...'men. and 'girl' instead of men and women. Is someone taking advantage of you? If so, don't let it happen. Otherwise, guys can sometimes be very selfish. So, my advise is to not be so self-sacrificing. Develop independence and learn to love yourself so that you don't play this role again. It's up to you to ensure that you are treated well by others and that includes not tolerating bad behavior. You must always be willing to walk away. good Luck
2006-11-21 16:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice is nice, but guys want somebody that will challenge them and keep them in line. I'm not saying to be a nag or a beeatch, but they need somebody who will stand up for themselves. Pushovers are not interesting.
2006-11-21 16:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from personal experience, guys usually don't know what they have until its gone. Whether they broke up with her, or she left him...once its over, then the lightbulb finally goes on and usually by, then its too late...
2006-11-21 16:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the party sweetie! We are few and a very rare. Just don't be a door mat!
2006-11-21 16:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're idiots and don't realize a good thing till its gone...at which point they start guerilla calling you and crying and telling you they can't live without you...at which point you laugh :)
2006-11-21 16:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he thinks hes the boss of her and hes not, he thinks since she is like that so sweet and what not, she will do anything for him.
2006-11-21 16:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are PIGS......I 've been through it to many times now I treat them the same way and now I'm happy ......lol
2006-11-21 16:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by metallicalady2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋