Oh im sorry but only serious answers pls, sorry Joey K but answer the ones you know about and stop wasting our time.
2006-11-21 08:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by Michelle B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
you need to put her back in diapers until she is ready to earn undies
2006-11-24 11:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw your other question about why people answer when they don't have kids. I'm 14 years old and don't have any kids (duh lol) but I think I might have some helpful suggestions. And people, BM is bowel movement. You don't have 2 be a doctor to know that one.
Make sure she knows what it feels like to need 2 go potty. Make sure she understands that pee and poop belong in the potty. Then tell her that when she feels this urge to tell you or who ever she is with that she needs to go to the bathroom. Tell her that she can only keep the big girl panties if she tries her best to use the potty. Give her rewards when she makes it to the bathroom and ask her what happened if she has an accident.
Sorry these answers are kinda scatterbrained, but i hope this helps!
2006-11-21 16:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea Johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should praise her a little more for going in the potty when she does, even if it is just pee! Kids love you to be proud of them, so make a star or sticker chart for when she uses the potty successfully. Don't give negative feedback when she does bad because they take it as attention and they keep doing what gives them attention. Take her to the bathroom when you go so she sees that it is a grown up thing to do. Tell her that big girls go in the potty like mommy. I know it is a mess to clean and frustrating, but you have to have patience with kids. I used to teach a 2 year old class at a daycare, and had to potty train all the kids. Praise and peer pressure worked the best. Getting upset and frustrated made the kids upset and frustrated too which made the job harder. You don't want her to get down on herself at such a young age. Their self-esteem need to be boosted at this age, and your being proud is all it takes for them to want to do better.
2006-11-21 08:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Diane A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old she is, I recommend this plan: Do not get upset. Do not make a big deal out of it. Just take her by the hand and teach her to wash her undies - you know, scrape out the matter and soak the undies in a bucket, wash them properly. Just assist her to do this for herself every time she makes a mistake, and soon she will probably rather use the toilet. This works if you don't get upset, just explain calmly as you are helping her wash her own clothes that when she uses the toilet like she's meant to, she won't have to wash her undies any more. It's kind, simple, logical, and teaches her self-responsibility. Good luck.
2006-11-21 19:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter is having the same problem. try a keep track for a few days when she does have a bm. if she is going about the same time each day try and get her on the potty before. and when she does go make a big deal about it. give her a special treat or small toy. just keep trying! good luck.
2006-11-21 08:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by atruddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my daughter. Show her the potty and remind her. If you see her pooping put her on the potty. Explain to her over and over why she needs to go to the toilet.It may take up to a year good luck!
2006-11-21 08:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Apple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens sometimes--kids go on the potty for pee but not bms..she'll get it eventually. Just be patient. Soon she wont want to miss play etc to have mommy clean the bm off her.
2006-11-21 08:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by c m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy i work with his daughter is the exact same way...i dont there is an explanation for this youll find that a child would much rather tell you the they peed rather then they pooped...i think it just has to do with time and patience and thats about it just make sure everytime that you let her know that poo poo goes in the potty..and to let mommy know and when she does give her something special everytime.
2006-11-21 08:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try using bigger rewards for bm or go back to pull ups until she does both in the potty all the time
2006-11-21 08:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why is she wearing big girl panties if she wants to go poo in them? I say, put her back on the diapers! She's gotta learn - no matter how long it takes.
2006-11-21 08:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by LGT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My 23 is potty trained, but had the same problem, so they do finally do it, he hated to sit on the potty, he thought something would get his butt. he finally went but jumped right off when he got done.
2006-11-21 08:42:09 · answer #11 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋