How do i know if he likes me?

Question

There's this guy at college who i really like. people keep saying he likes me too - how do i know though?

Answer 1

Do you find yourself doing any of the following?1. Laughing at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smileing a LOT 3. Talking to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Being REALLY nice 5. Sticking up for him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him,do you use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Being yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, maybe like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talking about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitateing to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people are accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, you say that he is very nice, and what is worng with that? 13. Saying hi to him in the hallways 14. Telling him your e-mail address and getting his! 14. When you talk, do you not avoid his eyes Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Making some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing it. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking you let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Being yourself!!! (yet again!) If you match most of these most likey you do like him and he likes you. As for is he the right guy for you, here's some hintsof a good boyfriend.
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) I hope this helps you out.~Alison~ Good Luck in your journeies!

Answer 2

Funny I was reading back in my journals from first year in college and the same situation came up. I detailed everything that went on and seeing it from a more mature perspective, if your gut says that he likes you, then he likes you. It doesn't necessarily mean that he is willing to date you though and here's the rub. While you can find someone attractive you may not necessarily want to date them. What do you really want to know? If he likes you or if he'll date you? I guarantee he likes you if most ppl you know things so. They are using their instincts. Is it good enough to know that? If not then take the plunge and pull the trigger. Force him to answer you. Best way though is to let things develop on their own and take your cues from there.

Answer 3

You should know...when he sees u does he look at you and "that" special way? Does he do things for you to notice him? Does he try to make converstion? I'd suggest don't ask him...what if he says no? don't embarrased urself! if he makes u think he likes you by the things he does or how he looks at you but doesn't make a move in a long time then he doens't like you he is just a flirt and does that with every girl. And if he truly like you he'll find a way to let you know...don't play hard to get (by this I don't mean give "it" up) just act normal and talk to him let him get to know you and throw hints @ him just in case he is a lil shy. But don't ask!! actuallly ASK!! but ask yourself...I'm sure you know the answer.

Answer 4

Ask him out. Jack n crack sounds good. But tell him he can order only from the $ menu. And also, you two can share a small soda since they offer free refills. Yes I know. Call me a romantic.

Answer 5

Flirt with him some. Smile when you make eye contact, ask him for help with work (whether you need it or not), compliment him on his help or on what he's wearing, stuff like that. He'll make his move when he's ready.

Answer 6

if u r a straight up girl u can walk to him and ask him if the rumor is true. and if he says yes tell him how u feel, and hopefully things will work out.

Answer 7

Well if I were you I would ask him my self. Don't be shy or afraid to ask him and if he tells you yes then well are you a lucky person. hey if you have any mor problems email me @ [e-mail]
I hope you get lucky

Answer 8

You can easily tell by his actions and personality towards you. Don't listen to other people's gossip, try to notice things he does in his actions and things to you and what he says etc.

Answer 9

Isn't it time to grow some, you are in college.

Answer 10

ask him urself?
u'll know once & 4 all.
b brave, what u got 2 lose?