My boyfriend of four years is very loving and devoted.He has been waiting for me for last 4 years to break up ties with my ex hubby so that he can marry me.You see I am from another country.But he has one problem.While I am gone he sex chats a woman in Taiawan which I knew of but I thought its better than meeting some one in real.Now the problem is I foUnd he has been sex chatting & cybering with her even while I have been with him in the USA.As a result our sex life diminished as I find it disgusting .So its not as if he does it because he dooesnt gHe apologises every time I catch him but then goes n makes a new id & continues to sex chat the same woman when I am asleep.I am not sure I wanna marry him as I have lost trust.We had excellent sex realtions between us but he always has had a thing for web chatting.So he cannot say he does it due to a problem between us What should I do?I know he apologises not because he is sorry but because he is caught.What should I do?I AM VERY HURT
2006-11-21 08:23:54 · 16 answers · asked by Tia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with ex hubby meant I am fighting for a divorce in the court
2006-11-21 08:36:17 · update #1
No, he's probably bored. But clear it up before you get married.
2006-11-21 08:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would have a serious talk with him about it. Lay down the law and say that you are the only person he needs to be having any sort of sexual relation with. If he still persists online then you will have no choice but to move on, as he does not respect you and your relationship.
2006-11-21 16:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "break up ties with my ex hubby"? What ties are you referring to? Are you saying that the divorce isn't finalized yet? If so, then you are still married and the both of you are cheating.
2006-11-21 16:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously not going to stop or he would have by now. You have lost your trust in him...you are losing interest in sexual relations due to his continued interactions with this other woman. You have lost the solid foundation that you need to build a marraige on. So unless you are willing to share him with online playmates...then I think it is time to walk away.
2006-11-21 16:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is cheating why would he have to do that if he has you....what is the point of sex chat online if you have someone ...how do you know he isn't chatting with someone in the same city? I just think its wrong. Would he like it if you did it?
2006-11-21 16:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by metallicalady2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is a form of cheating that he needs to get a hold on before you enter in a long term relationship.
2006-11-21 16:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if he was cheating on you while you were cheating on your ex husband.
Your whole relationship has been based on lies. He only apologizes because he got caught, he won't change.
You should leave and get in a relationship where neither one of you cheats and lies.
2006-11-21 16:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You should make him happy enough that he only wants to please you, Not please some foregein chick on the computer. It is obvious he doesn't love you as much as you love him. And YES that is cheating, just because it isn't physical, it is still mental and emotion. Later....L.G.
Besides that he is going to cheat because your relationship is nothing but cheating. He saw you cheat so he figures he can too.
2006-11-21 16:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to sex chat then he can sex chat along, but if you love him then you guys need to talk about it
2006-11-21 16:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he wants to sex chat with other women insteadd of in the bed with u then kiss him good bye
2006-11-21 16:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me its cheating. I wouldn't marry him if I was you. He wont stop this behavior and it will probably get worse over the years.
2006-11-21 16:29:14 · answer #11 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋