so i really like my brothers friend hes 18 years old im 16. we kissed about a month or so ago and the other day he told me its hard for us to have sex considering hes my brothers friend. we've never had sex before .I dont want to get hurt. but i want more than sex with him cuz i like him alot. this whole thing is so frustrating what should i do?
2006-11-21 08:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit playing games and just talk to the guy.
2006-11-21 08:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gary K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You kissed him ONE time a month ago and are having a hard time having sex?!?! For one thing, older brothers, AND their friends, are supposed to watch out for the younger sister...NOT kiss them behind their backs. Maybe he realizes his mistake by kissing you and is doing the right thing by telling you no to sex. Just leave him alone because you are really going to hurt your brother if you do this with his friend.
2006-11-21 08:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how yah feel and hold off on the sex thing for now because you both are going to feel kinda funny doing it and you want to make sure you are completely confortable about doing it with him(he is your brothers friend) so you will still have to see him even if things dont work out. Besides by time you do have sex with him the way you did feel about him you might not feel the same afterwards.
2006-11-21 08:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think anyone should have sex until he or she is absolutely ready. Be careful... don't do something that you are uncomfortable with and don't let anyone pressure you in to doing something you don't want to do.
Ok... you both are young, so I think that you should move slow. Talk to him, get to know him better. Don't tell him that you love him just yet. It might complicate things too much for him right now. For now just spend time with him. You all can kiss and hang out, but don't let things get out of control. Take your time. If it is love you want, by taking your time you will see if he wants love with you too.
2006-11-21 08:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by GirlSunshine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel and don't jump into sex right away. And if he really wants to be with you for other reasons than sex he would tell your brother that he wants to be with you.
2006-11-21 08:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by quileter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't suggest sleeping with a guy until you've been in a relationship for several months. That's because the easier it is to get in the easier it is to get out.
2006-11-21 08:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by A concerned American 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should definetely tell him how you feel, but make sure he has some feelings for you too, unless you wanna get hurt
2006-11-21 08:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL YEA you should tell him how you feel..and if sex is all he wants...forget about him
2006-11-21 08:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by hotsauce 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should have sex with him and dump your old boyfriend
2006-11-21 08:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by bes_1118 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him
2006-11-21 08:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋