another guy is flirting with my gf ..I tested my gf yesterday, when I asked her:
1)if she has met me at the same time then this guy, will she still go out with me ..? she said she don't know .., she will go out with the guy that makes her feel better..
2) who do u feel better with right now? she said, although, it's hard to say, but I think it's with the other guy ...!!
3) and if he tries to kiss u one day, after he drives u home, what would u do ? she said, how do u want me to know how I would react ...? I don't know ..!!
... and I broke up ...!!
wasn't that a good reason ..?
2006-11-21 07:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know , she likes him ...it's obvious..she talks about him a lot, and seems to like to be with him ..she was showing less interest in me since she met that guy ...
2006-11-21 07:46:18 · update #1
You sound young and immature. Wait a while before you start dating - you are definitely not ready.
2006-11-21 07:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to agree with Seti on this. Relationships are built on trust. You don't trust her, pure and simple. Regardless of the fact that she's flirting, you have no reason to believe that your gf will cheat on you unless you have no self-confidence. I'm not defending her by saying it's ok to flirt, but really. Grow up. Get over it. You are now wanting vindication from complete strangers because you lack the self-confidence to make these kind of decisions. Maybe you should wait a few years to mature enough to handle an adult relationship.
2006-11-21 15:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Another Nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it was a pretty good reason because if she wanted to be with you then she wouldn't of said the other guy. Yeah, it would be a lot different if she met him before you guys were dating..... I know this is not what you want to hear but i hope everything works out....
2006-11-21 15:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this was a very good reason. i guess you just have to ask yourself do you think she really likes this guy and will she do anything with him. maybe it's just flirting. and flirting is not cheating. so if you really love her and don't want to loose her then you better go back and makeup. just let her know how this bothers you and if she loves you then she'll understand and stop flirting.
2006-11-21 15:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by sexy-cecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a pretty good reason to break up with her... But maybe she was insecure about why you were asking her the questions.
2006-11-21 15:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES that is a good reason!!!! There is no reason to waste your time with a girl that is "iffy" . When you find the one for you she will be all about YOU not you and someone else.
2006-11-21 15:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by brandi from texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, for you a good reason was that you're pathetic and insecure - and pathetically insecure people should not be in relationships to begin with.
2006-11-21 15:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes very good reason
2006-11-21 15:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by mister roy jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋