theres this guy atmy church whenever i see him there hes alwyas looking at me . he gives me the strongest stare anyone coiuld give, almost as if if hes waiting for me to approach him. i really like him alot but im really shy around poeple i dont know . how can i let him know that i like him and how can i know if he likes me?
2006-11-21 07:17:11 · 17 answers · asked by sexyshara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm....The best thing to do is try to go and introduce yourself and become friends. Since you don't know him, and this has happened before, looks can be deceiving. Once you talk to him or get to know him your feelings might change. Or, they might get stronger and you both realize you like each other and start dating. But first things first, pray about it, get the courage to introduce yourself, and take it from there. Good luck and have a great Thanksgiving!
2006-11-21 07:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be friendly...if you catch him staring...give him a friendly smile..if you see him before or after..like in the parking lot...make sure to say hello and goodbye...let him know that you are approachable. If you want a bit more of an aggressive stance...try seeking him out after the service...and use comments on the sermon to open a discussion.
2006-11-21 07:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters I was very very shy as a young girl. You just have to open up and be more outgoing. Just go up and talk to him just get to know him as a friend so if he doesnt like you as a girlfriend then you wont have to be embarressed because you just talked to him as a "friend" in the first place. Believe me it will work! That way even if you guys dont go out you will still have a new friend!
2006-11-21 07:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by o3rockstarswife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll it sounds like both of you are shy. The only thing to do is to take in a deep breath and approach him. If your nervous on what to say, simply ask him something related to church. Or if you don't get the guts to ask say hello, and maybe he'll ask. Good luck?
2006-11-21 07:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by c_eva02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get ahead of yourself now, because this could be just because you had something on your face or somethin lol, but i would try to approach him, start up a conversation maybe about relationships, or what his opinion is on girls and then let him do the talking.
2006-11-21 07:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by amarie5137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you too, it seems to me that you both are scared. You have to build the courage and tell him that you are interested and would like to date him. You cant be scared or let someone else do it for you. Guys like that type of stuff anyway, it turns them on more, Just flirt with him at first and then let him know. If you're scared then you dont want to go out with him
2006-11-21 07:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up the courage to talk to him. Or write an anonymous note.
2006-11-21 07:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems kinda obvious that he llikes you!!Go for it or if you have a good friend that can ask him for you than that would be good too..but its better if you start off by talking to him about random things then get personal..good luck!!
2006-11-21 07:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, slow down!! Every once in awhile you feel Sexy or cool but let him approuch to you! thats one clue that he likes you then you will tell him that you like him.
2006-11-21 07:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by mexican temper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note telling him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same.
2006-11-21 07:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋