i believe that our lives are planned out and certain things are destined to happen. but finding the "one" is that the same?. if oyu are destined to be with someone then can anything in the world change that?? do you have to do something to make the other person realise they think your the "one". i dont know if my friend is the one but i am definantly going to hang around to find out.if we stay friends untill we are a little older than maybe i willknow more. im only 15!!!!
can having a crush on someone for a short while mean there the one. because i feel my friend may have liked me more before. but i didnt think of her lie tht ubtill i got to know her morre. i tihnk i do now hence why im writing this. plz reply need your help dearly. plz answer all the above questions. thankyou love tom xxxxx
2006-11-21 07:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O sweets! The "one" is so complicated. I think when all girls have a crush at that age, they think/wish/hope he is the "one". But seriously... He probably isnt. Who he is now, wont even be close to who he becomes later. I dont know anyone who is the same person at 25 that they were at 15. 10 years makes a huge difference, and the cold hard truth is that relationships started when so young, USUALLY dont last. Over 85% of marriages between the ages of 18-25 end in divorce. Thats the majority of people getting married. You can never really know someone till you've lived with them for a few years. There is an old saying, Love is blind, and marriage is a real eye opener. I wouldnt worry too much about finding the "one" right now. I believe destiny and fate have everything worked out already for you and when its right, things will fall into place for you and him to finally come together. Good luck
2006-11-21 07:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Matty if its any help, here's my two pennies worth, there's is a huge difference between lust, infatuation and love, at your age I would be more inclined to believe it was lust or infatuation, I believe that there is more than one person in this life that you will care deeply for, but only one you will truly love and when you find her you will know, but hey Matty your still young what does it matter if she isn't the one have a good time with your life while you can, life will happen as it is supposed to and the end comes all to quickly, so enjoy the now take the opportunity in front of you, and see where it takes you, live life that's what its for.
2006-11-21 16:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by gameface_angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way too much info to answer all those questions sweetie. Listen, you are 15. WAY to young to be thinking this much about these things. Before you find "the one" you need to experience all the great things that life has to offer...and all the bad things like heartache, losing someone, failing at something... All the good and bad will lead you to "the one". Just enjoy being 15 right now!
2006-11-21 15:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by c m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What the hell your only 15? Stop thinking about the one and just have fun being a kid......If your gonna plan the future plan an education and a job career not finding your true love..... Everything comes in time just work hard on your future and if the "Right one" comes so be it ,.
2006-11-21 15:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello, is there anybody in there????
There is no "plan" for life!!
There is no such thing as "destiny"!!
Life is like a game of roulette...........or the lottery. Today may be your day, maybe tomorrow.............maybe next Thursday.
Don't sit around and wait for things to happen. You may miss out on a lot of things in life!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-21 15:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ahhh bless.
You will have many crushes through out your life. Youve got lots of growing up to do x
2006-11-21 15:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well as you say if things are planned out for us you will not no if that person is the one until you either split up or you grow old and drop dead together.
Crushes are crushes and means FOOK ALL
2006-11-21 15:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
our lives are not planned out, there is no such thing as the one. It is a romantic notion popularised by romantic fiction.
time to become the master of your own destiny
remember you have freedom of choice but not freedom of will
2006-11-21 15:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by zigzag 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You been drinking schnapps again, you really must stop. Take up orange juice.
2006-11-21 15:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I also believe our lives are preplanned before we are born. If we will be rich or poor, disabled or able bodied, if we will have kids, everything.
2006-11-21 16:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋