i have this friend who is very special to me.ive always liked her since the moment we met and we had this weired connection that makes me feel like i am the luckiest person on earth just to know her.being friends with her is wonderful and i feel we are destined to be m8s forever.
you know when things are tough and then you meet some1 and it completely changes ur life.i had nothing before but she has put the spark back into my life and im so pleased i met her. i feel we will always be friends and so does she.
but i am so worried. im only 15 but already i am worrying about finding the "one". i know we are friends and that she has never thought of us being more. but i have this connection with her that i have never felt. if she is the one and we keep in contact then oneday could we be together? will her feelings ever die?? i cannot tell her my feelings because it would kill me if i lost her as a friend. if we are destined to be together then will we?? i feel a true love never dies.
2006-11-21 06:50:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may just be a really close friendship, but I started dating my husband when we were 16 and we have never looked back. If it was meant to be, then it will be, dont try and rush it or anything, just be there for her and see what happens
2006-11-21 06:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, im 14 ere,
I had that same thing a couple of years ago-exact same thing with this girl- trouble was it never worked out she has familey issues and moved away, then came back to my town and has got a completely new personality, new her, new mates, im completely ignored. At the time i was quite sad because we had known each other for years....and years, but im over it now we both have new crowds to hang in-but my advise would be whatever happenes along the way dont loose her. We all have girls along the way but its not the same 'with that special connection' that you have with past time friends, so just keep her close dont let her go whatever happenes and give it time-somthing might happen!
Wishing you all the luck ~
Cameron
2006-11-21 15:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by § gαввαηα § 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're really thinking a little too much,but that's normal for teenagers during this age to think about love or "the one". Take my cousin for example,she's only 14 and she has a boyfriend already in school. It's quite natural,but just let nature take it's course and you'll eventually find "the one" when you get older and get to understand this issue of love better.
If you like her,I'd suggest just be honest with her. If you both can't be together,you both still can be friends. And as what you say,you're only 15 and still have a long way to go,usually the person you like during your teenage years wouldn't be your lifetime partner. Just offering some advice here.
2006-11-21 14:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by HahaYou'rePwned! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait. Because what if she isn't "the one"? It's not a problem if you have feelngs for her. I had feelings for this guy before. We've been best friends since we were 9. And last summer he confessed that he liked me. Now that we want to be more....
It might not work out because we're so young, and there is our whole life ahead of us.
But you have to think. In your mind, could you say "I love you" and truly mean it? Then can you say it outloud?
Do you see clues in her? Does it look like she might be interested in you?
Take a look into the future. Is she your religion? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with her, or do you want to wait?
2006-11-21 14:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are meant to be together then you will. You can influence whether you will be, but i like to think that if something is supposed to happen at some point in your life it will. You may have to work for it but it will all work out in the end. You are very lucky to have such a special relationship with someone, dont lose it, you clearly need eachother =)
2006-11-21 14:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but don't worry about it so much. If she means that much to you, then just keep being her friend. Always stay in touch with her. If something else is supposed to happen, It will, but just let it happen. Don't force it into the equation.
2006-11-21 14:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can preserve and keep the memory forever but not love.
Sorry - you see after years what you needed to experience to become real men. I'm not your father to teach you the expectation to pass. Is too much to say. Good luck.
2006-11-21 14:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My older sister (30)met her husband when she was 14 and they have been together ever since...but normally you are to young to be thinking like that but it is possible.
2006-11-21 14:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by In love 4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your precious young years by being too serious, your a long time dead honey. just remember that
2006-11-21 14:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by ccc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great, stay friends, nothing to beat it, just don't get pushy, your too young, things will move on naturally
2006-11-21 14:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋