If you were "seeing" a guy but not officially dating him and he invited you on an impromptu weekend vacation would you go with him? And if so would you think that all he wanted you to go for was s*e*x*?
2006-11-21 06:48:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya know it really depends on the type of "relationship" you guys have, some cases yes and some no, it depends on how you express yourself, if you guys have had sex then no i wouldn't think it was about that because duh, you've already done it, but if u havejn't had sex and u've kinda brought it up a few times then it's possible she might think that, just lay it down like it is, tell her u just want to spend time with her and get to know her better on a more personal level, and tell her no it's not that u want to get in her pants and that u guys could even sleep in separate beds (if it's that big of a deal) but either way, i'd go, good luck with tht and just remember, it's all in the way you give hte proposition!
2006-11-21 06:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kollege Gurl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the guy invited me...I know that he would want that! I got it like that! (Ha! Ha!)
But anyway...Yes I would go because I like to do things in the spur -of -the -moment! And know not really (Concerning the sex)...I believe that it would be because he enjoy being with me! To be honest, I am a lot of fun to be around. I have a new attitude and I am enjoying my life! And that's no joke!!!
2006-11-21 14:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go and if it led to that, then the person can always say no. But I don't think the guy should be trying anyway since they're not officially dating.
2006-11-21 14:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Paola G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy asked me to go on vacation with him I would think he really likes me and no not just for sex b/c who would want to go all out like that when you can get sex at home. I would go if I liked him and wnated to spend that much time with him.
2006-11-21 14:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Yellowtulips 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on more circumstances... if I was free, where it was too, am I expected (and could) pay for some of the expenses, etc.
Whether or not I would assume he just wanted to have sex would depend on our relationship up to that point. (how the dates have gone prior to) Besides, maybe she is ready to take it to the next level with you.
2006-11-21 14:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsum691 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy & yup - probably.
(You said "all" he wanted you for. I probably wouldn't assume that it were the 'only' thing he wanted me for, however - going on a vacation, I would assume that sex would be somewhere in the plan)
2006-11-21 14:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest yes, but I would hope it would be more. And after thinking that sex might happen, if I'm OK with that then I would go....
2006-11-21 14:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on how long i was seeing this guy if it were for a while why not and no men can get sex any where he would not have to invite me he could find some other chick and bang her!
2006-11-21 14:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by In love 4ever 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
depends put ur a guy and u mostly think about sex and 2 whole days so yeah probably
2006-11-21 14:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course ! Why would a guy waste time and money being with just an aquaintance if not for sex.
2006-11-21 14:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋