After being married once and going through the dating scene for 12 years now I am starting to realize I may never find him.
I do not need someone, but yearn for the wanting of someone I can not live without.
It is starting to depress me, when I know it shouldn't...
How do you all out there with the same scenario of having never found the right one, deal with it?
2006-11-21 06:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by wandering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You come to realize that there's no such thing as the right one. But you know that, right? You meet people you think are right, but you're only filling in the blanks based on minimal reference. Their actions go on to fill in the blanks, and then you compromise between reality and self-delusion. And in the final analysis, love is either a good compromise or a bad power play.
2006-11-21 06:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't.
Resignation is acceptance and I refuse to quit. Just because the right person has not shown up when I wanted, does not mean it will never happen.
I know it will.
You see, we are all mirrors of our minds. People "read" what we are thinking, and circumstances "happen" because of our thoughts. I know it may be lonely for you right now but, perhaps it is Time for you to PREPARE for Mr. Right BEFORE you two meet. You know: iron out all of those issues you've had before, and reflect on what you did right (or wrong) in your previous dealings with others these past 12 years.
Finally, ask yourself if you truly KNOW what kind of man you want to be with for the rest of your life. No no no ... not just "sexy" or a good companion, but what are his traits? His personality? His dreams?
Write them down, my friend, because THAT is the man you have been overlooking all of this time. (smile)
I do wish you much happiness. Good Luck to you!
2006-11-21 14:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do i deal with it? I just have to deal with it... its not easy and it wasnt meant to be easy. the bearing of this depression. I get easily depresses too and i have gone out with many men and i have yet to find the one who completes me. The one that fills my heart. We just have to conrinue be patient i guess... though thinking about "the day" brings a little excitement. No matter who it will be, the one waiting for me at the altar one day, if i am walking down that isle its because i will be in love. I just got longing and patience.
2006-11-21 14:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by ahuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never lose hope.. like u there are many other people waiting to find the right partner.. sometimes we just search too hard.. don't let it depress u .. enjoy life.. life is too short anyway.. Feel good about Ur self and the right person will soon come along.. that's what i keep telling myself.. I don't allow it to rule my life.. good luck
2006-11-21 14:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m in the early stages. Been divorced for 3 years, have custody of my daughter and have never come close to meeting someone I could be happy with. If you have kids focus all of your attention on them. If you don't, go out and have fun with friends someone will find you.
2006-11-21 14:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dustin27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time....I still believe everything happens for a reason....and one day when the time is right I will meet the one person for me.....They say love finds you when you are not looking for it....Soooo Stooppp Loookkking.
2006-11-21 14:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment you cease looking it will find you.
2006-11-21 14:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by carol h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋