if someone harrasses us more often what should we do in this situations....how we can overcome this problem...........shall we use the non-violence that gandhiji used that we should just smile and be good to them?........what if they harm us even more?.......... or shall we use the violence that bhagat singh used to give back up anwers or start to fight with them...........what if then they will be more furious with us?
2006-11-21 06:28:26 · 10 answers · asked by kajal 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Stand up to them...not necessarily fight them, but verbally stand up to them. Bullies are basically cowards and will usually back down when confronted.
2006-11-21 07:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually dont be nice or mean. I ignore them like they dont exist. If they continue I will catch them alone and say "What is going on with you? Is everything okay? You seem very mad today? Is there something going on in your life, that you want to talk about? This shows concern and shows the other person that they are being wrong in general. People who are mean usually have something going on in their life or are unhappy with themselves. It usually never has to do with you. A happy person will tell you something bothers them without bulling you.
2006-11-21 07:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself and quit acting like a little baby. Obviously you are older, (references to ghandi), most bullies pick on you because you present yourself as an easy mark. Even if you get beat up, they will think twice about picking on you again. Bullies don't like people who fight back. If it escalates to weapons, then seek out adult help, until then, fight your own battles, it feels good.
2006-11-21 06:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but with todays society, your going to have to fight. The advice I can give you-- never ever get in a fight that you know you can't win. Only low blow if your in absolute danger. If you get them down, get on top and give elbows to the face NOT THE FOREHEAD.
2006-11-21 06:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends wether the other person is f/m if f kajal do follow gandhiji's principal well it worked in my case try to bear with them and don't show them u r getting hurt instead pretend to concentrate on work in hand and ignore them becauz other person is hurting u because u get hurt but if it's m and reasonably unknown don't take it lightly and take help of some1 becauz it may get serious
2006-11-21 06:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by vivek g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to them. If that doesn't work, then contact local authorities. Harrassment is not cool. Do something about it.
2006-11-21 07:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a kid talk to thier parents or have someone talk to them for you. If you believe you can fight them on the spot sometimes you should but it could be dangerous if they have a hidden weapon speak softly and carry a pen.
2006-11-21 06:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is in a clean ecosystem and attempting to experience his way. He needs interest and the sole way, in his immature 8 years old thoughts to accomplish that, is to do issues that are unacceptable. Has he been formally clinically determined with ADHD? Does he bypass to a doctor he can consult with approximately how he acts and what he feels? i ask your self, how did he behave in the former college? it ought to be clever to touch his former instructors to confirm if he displayed those strikes at his old college, yet they surpassed over it simply by fact they knew him. those instructors and directors don't be attentive to him and he isn't providing himself properly. He won't be in a position to be allowed to punch different toddlers, in spite of if the different newborn isn't harm. i don't be attentive to precisely what passed off, yet there ought to be a counselor in the college who can look in on him and recommend you. He could could desire to be in yet another classification with a instructor who has greater valuable administration of him. yet please submit to in thoughts, the instructor won't be able to tolerate a disruptive newborn in a college room, and clearly that's your son's contemporary habit. i'll signify that in case you may take a time without work from artwork, which you persist with him around. After a on a similar time as, he will overlook you're there and start to reveal his known habit. then you relatively can see for your self what's occurring. that's recommended to have the instructor fill out a behavioral checklist daily and have it tied to a pair take care of he could elect to obtain. i could additionally recommend which you inspire him to seek for out associates in a greater effective way. possibly you may invite a newborn to spend a while at your place after college or on the weekend. Does he belong to cub scouts, a church team, or someplace the place he can meet toddlers his own age? as quickly as he exhibits associates, he would be much less in all probability to act out to get interest. regrettably, that's complicated for adults to get ADHD childrens to restrain themselves, in spite of if their habit is brazenly stated and the newborn knows of outcomes. expert help ought to be needed
2016-10-22 12:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn kick boxing and kick their butts
2006-11-21 06:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this once happened with me the best way is........gandhigiri!!! I to tell u i became so popular at school, they named me modern gandhi instead of ajay!!!!
2006-11-21 22:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋