I am a millionaire. I like this girl who works in my company. She is single. I asked her if she would marry me and told her that I will build a palace for her and treat her like a queen.
She said no.
I feel so insulted that I feel like commiting suicide.
Why are girls like this? I asked her with the best of intentions
2006-11-21 06:26:42 · 35 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you weigh 400+lbs?
2006-11-21 06:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ari A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only guess at why she wouldn't marry you.
I wouldn't marry you either if I were a woman because you don't seem to know what is important in a maritial relationship.
The first thing you say is that you're a millionaire. Does that make you a loving person, a good husband, or suitable for her?
Next you say you'll build her a palace and treat her like a queen. It never occurrred to you that she wants to earn her living and not be "kept"?
You sound like you're looking for another "achievement" or possesion in your charmed life.
Maybe if you got over yourself and didn't have a "king of the world" attitude you might be able to get a better focus on what women want in a husband.
I would guess that someone who is proud of substantial wealth made from the sweat of a bunch of workers might not be an ideal candidate for a sharing and equality-driven relationship.
2006-11-21 07:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, a lot of girls don't just date or marry men for the money; they actually need to meet someone who they are attracted too, as well as, have an emotional connection with. If all you are looking for is some companionship, then you'll eventually get some buy flaunting your cash...but she'll probably marry you and then divorce you a year later and take half of your estate.
2006-11-21 06:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you said you like her....in order for a marriage to work, both must love each other. Have you dated this woman? Have you thrown your money around like you are "the one" and act like your "s**t dont stink" etc......No person is worth suicide. I am sure you had the best of intentions but from what I read she probably felt you were not serious. That is what I would have thought. Money cannot buy happiness....try living like you were poor or average and follow your heart not your wallet/trust funds etc.
2006-11-21 06:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesn't want a relationship at the minute.
Money isn't everything and although you feel that building her a palace is a great act of kindness maybe she is looking for something less material and more emotional.
Don't commit suicide.
You will find someone who will marry you one day.
2006-11-21 06:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe u are asking the wrong girl, there is someone for everyone ..and sometimes it is not all about the money, there are girls out there that just want love, and not the money.. I know it is hard to believe.. lol but I wouldn't even sweat it..I know you are hurting now but it will get better.
I don't think you will have a problem. Keep your options open and love will come to you!!
2006-11-21 06:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lonely millionare. He's on his way to a vacation to the Bahamas alone. Money can't buy love. Meet people and try to be yourself (not associated with the money). Try to genuinely like a person for who she is. Try to find out more about yourself - for what you are really looking for, for what you really like in life. Indulge in the things that are free in life that make you happy. Love goes way beyond the money.
But the good news is that there are plenty of gold digging gals out there. Have you tried www.sugardaddy.com? Dr. Phil had a show on that topic.
2006-11-21 06:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well KING
maybe she wants to marry a man, instead of a corporation. I made the mistake once and felt with wealth and finer things in life, a women would throw themselves at me. Some did, but there was no love. Then the worst and best thing happened to me..... I nearly lost all my wealth and had to start from scratch....along the way, I found greater love.....and doubled my networth.
2006-11-21 06:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have tried asking her on a date. she probably said no because she doesnt know you to well other then her boss. you cant just ask a girl to marry you you have to take them on dates and get to know them and build that relationship. she obviously didnt care about how much money you have or she would have jumped on bored for the wrong reasons... so at least you found someone worth the tiem of wooing. go to her apoligize for rushing something and ask if she would like to have lunch with you to get to know each other. if she stil says no then she is probably not interested in you and youshould look elsewhere.
2006-11-21 06:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long (if at all) have you two been friends? She may not like you the way you like her, or she might be scared of such a long-term commitment, or maybe she was friends with you for your money and knows this, doesn't want to marry you for your money...the list goes on.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Remember that.
2006-11-21 06:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Fred B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people so depressed?
Ok, stop thinking about killing yourself. The reason she said no is either because she doesn't know you well enough or her heart belongs to someone. Look you'll find someone, just keep looking. I turned down 4 proposals (3 were arranged marriage type deals) and the last I just couldn't picture myself with him. We only do it, because don't we deserve to be happy and in love too? Your future bride is out there. And she's looking for you too.
2006-11-21 06:39:43 · answer #11 · answered by Paola G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋