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2006-11-21 06:24:12
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answer #1
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answered by zaris 2
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It depends on the people. I am recently married; I'm 25 and my husband is 23. Most of my friends (most of whom are college graduates and people that I know through college) got married in the 23-25 range or are at least looking to settle down now. That doesn't mean that's the right age for everyone, though! The right couple gets married when they are ready to do it.
Financial stability is also really helpful, but don't wait around for that either unless it's about to split you up. Sometimes there's never a right time to get married or have a kid--if you always planned those things out around the 'right time,' it would never happen! Just make sure you are emotionally ready, as individuals and as a person.
Other people will disagree, but living with someone is also a big adjustment. I suggest doing that first.
2006-11-21 16:49:23
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answer #2
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answered by ? 3
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Age has little to do with it. What does matter is your maturity. However that doesn't mean that every single 18-24 yr old should rush out and get married. I personally think 25-30 is a good age. When you hit 25, you have a more mature outlook on life than at 24 or younger. But some people never reach maturity no matter what age they are.
2006-11-21 16:56:13
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answer #3
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answered by Cinnamon 6
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After you become an adult EMOTIONALLY. Get all the youthful fun & craziness out of the way first. There's nothing more pathetic that someone regressing into a 2nd childhood because they had to grow up too soon so they missed it the first time around.
Don't rush into it. Unfortunately (even as reflected in some answers here) too many people look at marriage as a temporary situation that you can walk away from if you decide it isn't right.
But you should take it a lot more seriously and walk away only under a few situations. The rest should live up to the vow you make to yourself, your spouse, your loved ones in attendance, and God (if you marry in a church) and stick together through the good and the bad, sick & healthy, rich & poor, and all the rest.
2006-11-21 14:48:47
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answer #4
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answered by DivaDynamite 3
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any time after 18 yr, make sure you have finished school and have a training of some kind to fall back on. Don't marry your first crush and be with the person for over a year before thinking of marriage.Make sure you are ready to settle down, to give up the parties, the spending, and doing as you please. Marriage is 2 people act as one, you need to respect the other. Also it's a lot of sacrifice and obligation with many rough roads. This is from someone who has been married 34 yrs.
2006-11-21 14:41:02
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answer #5
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answered by deb n 1
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AGE shouldn't be an issue....however, I am not saying that a 13 year old person should get married. But, I think when I person is truly in love and is very mature and capable of taking on all of the responsibilities, then that is when they are ready for marriage.
2006-11-21 14:41:27
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answer #6
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answered by bellebelle113 2
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There is no good age to get married. Everyone finds someone sooner or later and getting married just adds to the fact that you want to be with that person for the rest of your life.
Some people get married when they are in their late teens
Others in their mid 20s
Others in their 40s and so on.
There's no direct age you should get married. Do it when you're ready and met that special person.
2006-11-21 14:27:39
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answer #7
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answered by sleepy 6
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My first marriage was at 18 and that marriage didn't work out, I was to young, to immature to handle the pressure of marriage and a new baby. I re-married again at 22 and so far I have been very happy, we have been married for 10 years. My suggestion would be to wait until you have experienced some life before settling down into marriage. Marriage is hard work, no matter how much you love someone. You also don't want to have curiosity about the single life, have your single life, then settle down, you'll know instinctively when your ready for the commitment of marriage. Good luck.
2006-11-21 14:26:42
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answer #8
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answered by Michelle Lynn 4
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I don't think there is a specific age that indicates a person is ready for marriage. I believe that so long as the couple have discussed the relationship- the emotional, physical, financial- and are compatible between their maturity levels, morals, life goals, values, life styles etc. people can get married whenever they're ready.
2006-11-21 16:18:51
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answer #9
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answered by Queen Sofia 1
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your ages should generally add up to around 50 for example the man is 26 and the woman is 24. However I probably won't get married til I'm in my late 20's
2006-11-21 14:24:22
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answer #10
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answered by Joe 5
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