It seems like she doesn't want to be with me, but I openly asked her and she expressed her feelings for me in such a way that I know she cares, but it still seems like I initiate almost all our physical contact. Sometimes, she seems cold. I have done a lot for her. From taking care of her when she is sick, to always being there for her morally, emotionally, and physically. Sometimes the conversation isn't the best. We have never really got into an argument. I am just too easy I think, and maybe because I am so good to her, she doesn't respect me. I don't know what to do. I give her all the freedom she wants. I am not clingy, I always respect her wishes, and I love her daughter as if she were my own. I love her so much, but I don't want her to be unhappy. She says that she's not, but I guess with my low self esteem, I ask myself how I can give her what she needs. We have only had sex once after being together for five months.
2006-11-21 06:20:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is just the type to keep to herself... or maybe she is just stressed. I know alot of times when I have alot on my mind I tend to ignore the ones I care about the most and I don't mean to I just get so much going I get to where i don't know rather I'm coming or going. be patient with her and she'll come around. Love takes time
2006-11-21 06:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she loves you as a friend but not more. Five months is a long time to go without sex. Perhaps she is enjoying the security of a partner but doesn't want the physical side. You really need to talk properly about this. Good luck.
2006-11-21 14:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy Chain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesn't like sex. Is uncomfortable being intimate, affectionate, kissing. All you can do is be patient and loving, communicate openly. Good luck. She is very lucky to have you.
2006-11-21 14:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a good person. May God help you to be patient, try to understand the fact that it's not easy for her to have a girl and to be alone...did you ask her about marriage...maybe she is scarred about everything. Pray for her and for you to be real human beings!Once again, may God help you take care of her soul, too!
2006-11-21 14:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This women is just burned of it.
If you speak up - you get problem. The only mistake was not continue the sex life when it started.
Sorry but I'm not doctor of sex life. I fight to have what I want and I won. Sex is great.
2006-11-21 14:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes , some women don't think they deserve to be treated well , strange isnt it you get some people who stay with people who dont treat them well and leave people who do , love doesnt make sense sometimes for sure .
2006-11-21 14:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that she isnt the affectionate kind of person.
2006-11-21 14:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by That cool kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is not confident in herself, maybe she is not a touchy feely person.
2006-11-21 14:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋