Whenever I talk on the phone with my girlfriend she always reminisces about her past boyfriends. It makes me feel rather obsolete in the romantics department. What does it mean when a girl talks constantly about her past boyfriends to me?
2006-11-21 05:51:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would let her know that it hurts your feelings. She won't know unless you tell her. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 05:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the nature she talks about him.Is it in a negative way? If it is then she is happy with you.
If it is positive, it means she is missing her old BFs. But the really question is how do you feel about it, are you comfortable talking abotu past BFs, or does it mak you feel unwanted... May be you should talk to her and ask her where is our realtionship going instead of dwelling on the past.
2006-11-21 05:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...that's not good. She sounds immature and selfish, like she's trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't buy into it...not all girls are like that. There is no reason to reminisce about exes. Find yourself a real girl who won't play games.
2006-11-21 05:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Camille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you need a new girlfriend. Seriously, why would you constanly want to be reminded of what all of her old boyfriends used to do for her? Have more respect for yourself man and move on.
2006-11-21 06:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by soxfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to get a clue and do some of the things that the guys in the past have done. That or she is a selfish witch
2006-11-21 05:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) she is obsessed with the past
2) She sees right through you - you are not special to her
3) Whatever you do for her - you are not measuring up
4) She is hard to please
5) She has bad manners
are you getting the picture?
Time to move on or...
...try this -
start talking about a past sexual experience of yours (make one up if you have to) and then when she freaks - discuss why you did it.
2006-11-21 05:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY DUMMY.SOMETHING SHE DOES BOTHERS YOU THEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND TALK TO HER. MAN UP!! MAKE SOME DINNER,BUY SOME FLOWERS,OPEN A DOOR,HOLD THE CHAIR WHEN SHE SITS,READ HER POETRY OR AT LEAST TRY. YOU ARE ONLY OBSOLETE IN ROMANCE IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE. OR MAYBE YOU JUST DO NOT CARE ABOUT HER???
2006-11-21 05:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by us veteran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deed, diverse women experience threatened by utilising their bf's mothers... it works any different way around too. What you ought to do is, discover out why she would not like her, discover out what your mom thinks of your gf, and then, have a sit down down which includes your lady chum. Your lady chum is out of line, yet, in case you have chose to restoration this you'll ought to shop it cool. females do not respond properly to "close up", on a similar time as quickly as we are being B****es... (i be attentive to simply by fact i'm one). You sit down down, head to head and tell her," i admire you yet, i admire my mom too. It relatively hurts once you talk undesirable approximately her and it may harm if she exchange into speaking this variety approximately you too. Please do not positioned me in this place... in case you do unlike my mom, that's large. yet, you nonetheless ought to appreciate her and appreciate that she is my mom." tell her it relatively is alright to sometimes make a comedian tale approximately your mom (you gotta provide her a splash freedom to try this). working example, I by no skill talk badly approximately my husband's mom yet, each so often I make exciting of her cooking (and that i make certain the hubby is in an ok temper to realize this) and, he jokes desirable lower back. He does a similar approximately my mom and that i will snort approximately it too. attempt to make some easy joking out of it quite than speaking crap... it relatively is plenty greater effectual, makes for a stable time, and greater importantly, it relatively is plenty greater respectful than you gf only complaining approximately her. do never tell her to close up...this basically throws greater gas on the hearth. If she will't appreciate those rules, she's basically going ot reason issues.
2016-10-22 12:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that she is inconsiderate of how it makes you feel. she may be trying to show off to you that yes guys like her and that is how she is going about it... or she could just be trying to make you jealous. either way you need to let her know that it isnt cool for her to talk about her ex's to you. and if she persists then start talking about your ex's to her and she will get the picture.
2006-11-21 05:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean nothing. Some girls just do that...they forget who they're talking to. Tell her it really bothers you (as it should). She most likely hasn't even thought of that and will stop.
2006-11-21 05:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by dontimaginetheyllallcometrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋