I am seeing a girl who has told me she wants to be treated by someone and she occasionally suggests things to do like cinema etc that i am expected to pay for i know her mates do this and sound like right b****s and i think she takes note off these.We do things that dont involve money aswell so is this normal for me to pay for things or should she pay her way and how should i know if she is just using me for a free ride???!???
2006-11-21 05:43:16 · 10 answers · asked by Vinnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not being used, your acting like a gentleman. As long as she isn't saying buy me this and this all the time, then its normal. Call me old fashioned but the MAN is supposed to pay for the dates. I say she sounds like a normal lady!
2006-11-21 05:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tamra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she NEVER even offers to pay, then yes she is using for a free ride. Especially if she "expects" you to pay all the time.
2006-11-21 05:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by QnA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should offer to pay or yall should split the bills right down the middle.
2006-11-21 05:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have a prearranged commit of going dutch which is when both boy and girl pay there own way the boy when on a date always pays
2006-11-21 05:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend pays a lot stuff for me,but I always buy him something ,a present or even pay for dinner...or gas.
2006-11-21 05:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should definitely offer to pay occasionally...
2006-11-21 05:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she suggests something to do...she should pay for it. If you suggest something then you should pay for it... if she refuses to pay for something even if she suggests it then and only then is she using you.
2006-11-21 05:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by katier16101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your intuition. If you feel like your being used, you are probably being used. Good luck.
2006-11-21 05:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every bf pays money for his gf. after marriage, u hv to look after her.
2006-11-21 05:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she at least offer, if not then leave her gold digging butt.
2006-11-21 05:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by 2hot4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋