There is a guy at my gym, around my age. We usually see each other at the gym a few times a week because we workout at the same time. Whenever I am near him, I catch him looking at me for a moment. Not ogling, not staring, its very hard to read his face but his eyes are fixated for a moment..on my face. I meet his stares and look away. What's the next step, and what can I do to spark his curiosity....Many thanks. At this point I am not ready to go up to him and speak....Let this game last a little longer...
2006-11-21 05:33:08 · 12 answers · asked by ultra _ girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fun is in the chase,
Make sure he is not married first or a psycho 2nd. and let him make the move.
Sounds like you have already sparked his curiosity.......
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-11-21 05:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't hurt to smile, for starters. Also, does he look at others the way he looks at you? It appears as though he may already be curious...or he could flirt with everyone that way. It's possible that *he* might take the initiative if you'd only smile at him or show some sort of interest in him. I think the best thing to do is show the dude a smile or two and see what he decides to do. Most guys take a smile from a girl they don't know as a very good sign, unless she's selling something. So smile and let him make the next move, because right now you're making zero progress with the guy.
2006-11-21 05:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by tsi1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, you are so evil! Just kidding.
First, I don't like to stare at any girl while I'm at the gym. But if we like you, we do have to at least look at you.... especially eye contact......right? So give the guy some feedback. He doesn't want to be a stalker. Just say hi.
We need something to work with!!!! If you're feeling bold, ask him how something works or complement him on something he is doing......
2006-11-21 05:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by HonestGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would not it rather is extra awkward if a guy you by no ability spoke to, walked up and advised you "hello, i admire you." esp. on the well being club? maximum women folk would not react nicely to that. maximum adult men recognize girls folk do no longer savour being hit on jointly as they're in the well being club, this is why they have female in basic terms golf equipment in recent times. So attempting to 'help' you out with kit is purely their way seeing what you're approximately and letting you recognize they're there. Be flattered, no longer aggravated.
2016-10-17 08:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by atalanta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time your looks catch his, before you or he turn away, smile. This may make him feel more comfortable in approaching you. A warm smile is also inviting.
2006-11-21 05:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you sweetie, just relax and smile and look right into his eyes for a monent then look away, look downward. That is your signal to come on!! Oh I am male, 57 and know these things. G
2006-11-21 05:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget games and get real, its way more fun.
you are just not ready because you are afraid to get rejected.
If you just accept the fact he migh reject you and come up, he will be suprised and will think, "wow, i never met a girl like this"
just do it. tons of guys out there.
2006-11-21 05:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile next time before looking away
2006-11-21 05:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he there with his girl? If not go for it before he is taken!
2006-11-21 05:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by 2hot4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him, let him know you're interested.
2006-11-21 05:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by artsycasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋