My boyfriend is from India and his family is very traditional. I want to make a good impression the first time I meet his family. Does any one have any advice? I'm a little intimidated because his mother has told him she doesn't like American girls and she really hates white girls. I'm an Internationl Affairs major in college so its not like I'm cultually insensitive I just want them to consider liking me =(
2006-11-21 05:32:48 · 8 answers · asked by annesaqt214 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am an Indian girl myself so I hope I can help you. Indian moms are very judgmental, as every potential girlfriend (in their eyes) is also a potential wife. LOL To create a good impression, make sure youre not showing too much skin. Wear pants or a long-ish skirt....nothing too short and nothing low cut. No tight clothes. Say thankvyou a lot. Greet them with "Namaste" if you like...Help her in the kitchen. Dont talk too much...You will do fine!
2006-11-21 05:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by ultra _ girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'M hindu and heres some advice try to learn some words in his language like namaste, something that is respective, hindu parents like their sons partners to be loyal to them and constantly be respective and helpfull with everything. Wear an indian dress that is decent, with a bindia, refer to his parents as uncle and aunty, hindu mothers love girls who are good in the kitchen learn some dishes, learn some recent news about the counrty for his dad and ask him what he thinks. Buy a good present something religious and flowers. Be yourself but in a respectful manner, be a little shy as well, let them know that you like them and make sure you bond before you leave. A good way to know you have bonded is if they give attention. Before you leave touch their feet its a hindu tradition(blessing). Good Luck. Watch some indian movies before you go there it might help.
2006-11-21 05:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend first. If his parents are as traditional as you say they are then they are going to not look at you as the girl their son happens to be dating, but as the girl who could marry their son. I know this changing slowly, but I also know that in a lot of Indian families that would never be acceptable. Does the boyfriend think you are Ms. Right or Ms. Right Now? Because he may not be willing to buck his parents and then you need to decide if you are ok with that.
2006-11-21 05:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Im Hindu, and Im from India, and I had a white girlfriend. My mom was apparently not the most pleased, but when she met my girlfriend, she really liked her, because she was just a really nice person!
I think, be nice, show the parents respect, and be yourself!
Thats all you can do. If they still dont like you, well its their loss.
2006-11-21 05:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Shmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change how people feel about you - they have to get over their prejudices. If she doesn't like anyone because of the color of their skin - it is her problem. You have to figure out if you want to spend the rest of your life with this man - if you do, she will like you even less! If you don't - who cares what she thinks. Just be yourself, cordial, and nice. Also - (having been thru this) be sure you FULLY understand the culture, tradition, religion, and expectations of a Hindu wife (again - assuming you wanna spend your life with him).
Good luck
2006-11-21 05:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by QnA 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a female belonging to a traditional hindu family in India.You dont have to feel intimidated.Be open minded and simple.welcome thier thoughts with a smile(even if you agree or disagree personally).wear a neat outfit.avoid outfits that are too flashy.wear minimum make up.if possible,pull back your hair.If you have any specific questions please feel free to ask me.i will answer all of them.i wanna help you with this.
email me at sheetalwwe10@yahoo.com.
2006-11-21 05:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only communicate on your mothers and dads...in the event that they love you they're going to surly like your bf too n in the event that they dont then interior the top you oftentimes have an option to run because of the fact its your existence...then your mothers and dads wont have any decision different than to settle for him
2016-11-25 23:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a hindu "sari" for that special day.......1st impression is da last impression,,,,,.. show the hindu side of urs........ love is beyond religion
2006-11-21 05:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋