theres this guy that im going out with, and i dated him once before, and now were back together, he acts intrested in me when im with him and he told me he loved me and all that stuff, but im not so sure about him, it seems like all he wants is to have sex with me, and im not for that right now, and he cheated on me before and he flirted with some of my friends before, but he only wanted to use her, and is that all hes doing using me for sex, i gave him a second chance, and im not sure about him... should i dump him?
2006-11-21 05:31:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him why hes with you and if he can go witout sex with you for a little bit soemtimes when your together and concentrate on doing things together and spending quality time together and making things better. If he doesn't think he can go without sex then he might just want you for sex and move on.
2006-11-21 05:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please don't do this to yourself. If he has cheated before, he is likely to repeat. Unless he has had a change of life paths because of God or disaster, he likely is the same person you dumped once. No woman deserves to be treated like an object or used for sex. Who knows what kinds of STD's he could pass to you if he cheated/cheats. A lot of STD's can cause damage to your reproductive system, and leave you infertile. I know that you're young and aren't thinking about that, but you should. Your body, feelings, etc. should always be your top priority!
2006-11-21 13:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why you broke up before. I don't think you are right for each other. And remember what they say, once a cheater, always a cheater. Dump him. The very fact you are having to ask this question shows that you are not actually happy with him.
2006-11-21 13:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by London Aussie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same at the moment with my boyfriend or ex hes messing me about that much i dont even know where i am with him.Hes the nicest person when were alone and then he just goes cold on me. I think the best thing is probably just to move on. You need a man whos straight with you and you know where you are with them, otherwise your head is just constantly done in!! well good luck girl x
2006-11-21 13:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by skin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you before and you are trying to find out if he is only with you for the sex? I think he is..... Come on - you can do better than him. Dump his sorry cheating self
2006-11-21 13:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by QnA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and run the other way. You don't need to give him a second chance especially since it sounds like all you are good for to him is sex. Screw him and his sexual issues, don't sleep with him just move on.
2006-11-21 13:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he wants you just for sex then hes not respecting you as a person.. if he loved you he would know that theres more to a relationship than just sex. you should dump him and find someone who would respect you more.
2006-11-21 13:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tower Of Strength 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dump him. It appears he only wants women for sex.
2006-11-21 13:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get on that dump him like a hot cake.
2006-11-21 13:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lil' Foot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds extremely immature. Get rid of him and fast. You deserve better than to be a sperm dispository for this self serving excuse of a man.
2006-11-21 13:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋