yeah guys and gals this is serious prob with me. i am getting bald rather early but does is it really effect the thinking of the girl.. she told she loves me but at same time tells do something so that her parents won't reject me.
love is for me accepting a person as he is and not to change him and love him. false appearance can be fools paradise wats after that . do girls really count abt baldness so much ... i suppose it is common notion in men
2006-11-21 05:27:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My Husband is mostly bald right now. He started to lose his hair in his very early 20's. He was very self-conscious about it, but I didn't see anything wrong with him or wrong with the fact that he was losing his hair. The only thing that should matter to anyone is how you are as a person. What should really matter to your Girlfriend's Parents is how you treat their daughter and what kind of a person you are.
I'm sure that your feelings are just your own self-consciousness. Please just be yourself and everything will work out fine. Remember, you are a good person - be PROUD OF YOURSELF and don't let anyone make you feel less of a person.
Have a lovely rest of the day.
2006-11-21 05:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Goblin g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a hairstylist and get a style that looks good for your hairline. Avoid any attempt to cover up the bald spot(s). Have your girl go with you. Of course, many women think bald is sexy. It's also cheaper to shave your head as well.
If it is going to seriously affect your relationship because her parents reject you over your hair loss, then perhaps you may want to rethink the relationship.
2006-11-21 05:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Uther Aurelianus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!
My husband is thinning and I have never paid attention to it, only when he brought it up!! We just recently got married and it was weird to see how thin his hair has become since we started dating six years ago and I had never even noticed!!! He is only 26!!
And this also had absolutely no effect on how my parents felt about him!! All they wanted for me was to find happiness and they knew with him I had found that!!! I promise no one will judge you for going bald as long as you are a great guy and treat your girl right!!
Honestly, when it comes down to it, guys think about it more than we do!! I find it attractive when a man can wear his bald head confidently!!
Good luck!!
2006-11-21 07:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think it is sexy. My Husband is completely silver and he is 30 years old. It was the first thing that drew me to him ... he looked distinguished, confident. I think the same thing when I see a bald man --- distinguished, confident.
If you are going bald and you don't like it, just shave it off. I have a friend that does this and his wife loves it. All of the girls agree -- very sexy!
-EZ
2006-11-21 06:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is getting balder day by day, but I'm head over heels for him even today. He looks sexier to me every passing day. If rejection is based on hair length then PLS let the girl go off or her parents, whatever. Be confident of what you are & ACCEPTING the other person the way he/she is is the first step to a successful relationship!!! tell her this!
2006-11-21 07:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bald/balding men are sexy as long as they don't try to hide it. It shouldn't affect your girl or her parents, and if it does, think carefully about your relationship! Also, if they are just selfishly thinking about their grandkids, keep in mind that they say baldness is passed down through the mother's side!
2006-11-21 06:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by pdx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, my boyfriend is also sort of going bald at an early age, and my parents accept him. If they dont accept you, then it shouldnt matter to you anyways. If your girlfriend loves you, then that is all that should count towards her parents. If they dont acept you, then oh well. The relationship is between you and her, not you and her parents.
2006-11-21 05:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by aliengirl72008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think most girls aren't really botherd by it. I am 26 and so is my husband and he is thinning, and has been for years. It didn't bother me at all! It didn't bother my parents either...he is a good person so thats all that matters to us!
2006-11-21 06:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you much older than her? That would bother the parents, not that you are balding.
2006-11-21 09:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-26 22:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋