My neighbor and I (live in the same apt building) spend much time together, several hours each day. She said that i am usually the last person she sees before goes to bed at night. She has a boyfriend, but i am not sure how involved she is with him. We hang out, make dinner for one another, go out to dinner, watch movies, have coffee and just like spending time with each other in general. I have said to her in the past that Sometimes i am sad to see her go, she would reply...only sometimes? I tell her how great a person i think she is, she replies youre not so bad yourself....Is it a close friendship or could there be something else?
2006-11-21 05:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, what do you want? you want to be her boyfriend or what?
grab your balls and use them. Part of being a man is exposing yourself to risk. In this situation, you have to find out what her feelings are and also tell her your feelings. Here you are goign to risk being rejected.
You have to accept that. dont try to use any weasel words or sugar coat it, just come out with it. she will respect you more for not being "wierd" about it.
tell her you were just curious and also if she didnt have a boyfriend you would do sexy things to her.
2006-11-21 05:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how my best friend's affair started... spending lots of time with the neighbor when her fiance was gone on business. Then he fell in love and she still married her man, and now the guy is trying to get her to leave her husband to be with him. The emotional affair continues even if they quit having sex. All she wanted was someone to be her friend and she ended up with a puppy-eyed fool following her around, trying to win her taken heart.
Until this girl is single- and you should not try to help her get that way- then make some distance between you, for your own good. Sounds like you want more and she doesn't. Or maybe she does but she's being loyal to her boyfriend. In either case, getting wrapped up in this is only going to get you hurt.
2006-11-21 13:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by sandostrich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be more, or she could just like feeling attractive to someone else. She does sound like she's flirting with you, but you need to find out what's going on with her and her boyfriend. Imagine how you would feel if you were in his place...maybe he doesn't deserve her and that's why she's distancing herself but you don't want them to be able to blame you for their relationship not working out. I suggest telling her that you don't feel comfortable with where your relationship is at, and see if she wants to break it off with you or him. Good Luck!
2006-11-21 13:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm - yah!! You just gotta figure out how much she likes you and how serious she is with her BF before you make your move!
2006-11-21 13:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by QnA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be more
2006-11-21 13:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋