If a guy abuses her gf on seeing her dancing with another guy n breaks up with her, doesnt believe her gf tht she didnt cheat him. then he contacts her after a month with unpleasant mesgs. Then this goes on for 2 months...but he never calls her. then last week he sends her a mesg tht she had been on date with whom???...n the gurl remains silent then he starts sending her abusive mesgs tht she is a pro..titute. She then replies tht she was very sick had her period pain n was with parents tht day but he doesnt believe n abuses her n tells her tht he feels like slapping her on face n abusing her more through text mesgs.Then next day a simple mesg is sent to him by chance n he sends an abusive mesg tht if another mesg is sent to him then he feels like breaking her hands. She replies tht she is very scared of him n will tk care tht she doesnt mesg him. Now he has stopped even looking at her n hasnt contacted her since a week. DO U THINK SUCH A GUY WILL AGAIN CONTACT HER THROUGH TEXT MESG??
2006-11-21 05:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-21 05:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like this guy is really insecure, possesive, and jealous, maybe abusive as well. My advise is to run and adviod him all together, change your number, so he doen't send you messages, don't talk to him, don't show your face to him, avoid him and if he makes any more remaks to you about anything call the cops and complain about harassment and make sure you get a restraining order so he doesn't come near you. This guy is psycho and he needs help, avoid him and stay away from him, you're better off without him. Good luck. If this is how he's acting now imagine him at his worst.
2006-11-21 05:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save in your outbox all his abusive messages for u and try to seek legal advice, I heard text messages can be used as evidences in court. Knowing your legal rights and not feel intimidated w/ him will make you brave and not scared of him. He has no right in the first place to be abusive and u, my dear must not let him abuse you verbally. Remember, no one has the right to put down any person...so he has no right at all!
2006-11-21 05:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i am that girl i would be more thatn pleased if this guy will never contact me or talk to me or even look at me, personally i will be calling cops for that, not a woman or man in this world needs to be abuse in any way!!!
2006-11-21 05:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it, he will keep on calling and texting. The evidence is present in the text messages. If that does not work try Dr Phil.
2006-11-21 05:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might. He has some serious issues. Is he using drugs? Your friend should get a restraining order if she feels threatened by this person. She should try ignoring him. Don't reward bad behavior. Good Luck to her. I have been in her shoes.
2006-11-21 05:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Just Because 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you asking this question because you want to get back with him? if he's alittle abuse now imagine when the relationship gets older. best to break it off now, why go threw it, he is already showing you his temper and true colors.
2006-11-21 05:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his ego is hurt.
he knows he did a mistake by losing you. but he doesn't want to show that hez the one who's done the mistake.
well you can do nothing about him other than avoid him totally.
unless he is on his knees accepting his mistakes and promise not to do them again
2006-11-21 05:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by c.dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a complete loser. She should tell him to GET OVER IT if he doesn't believe her and MOVE ON with his boring lil life.
2006-11-21 05:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by kms010494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would delete any message he sent without even reading it.
I would hope that you are done waiting on him to contact you.
Ignore him and move on.
2006-11-21 05:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he will someday so what she should do is get a new phone number and get rid of his number as well. life is hard already and she doesn't need to add more problems to her self.
2006-11-21 05:26:23 · answer #11 · answered by heygirl0222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋