OK...There's 2 gurls..Carlysia & Shania both been going out with the same dude. Carlysia & the dude been going out for about 1 year & 9 months now. The dude is cheating on Carlysia with Shania for a while now, but it's been kind of off & on thing. Carlysia know that the dude is cheating on her but she wont leave him beacuse she said she really love's him. The dude doesn't know that Carlysia know's that he's cheating. Shania doesn't know that the dude is cheating on her with Carlysia. What do ya'll think should be done???? Big confusion problem huh??
2006-11-21 05:18:06 · 19 answers · asked by **{{FASHI0NABL3 DIVA}}** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, confusion, and more confusion. Carlysia knows but would still like to keep him, while shania does not have a clue on whats happening. Probably Carlysia doesnt love him much to even tell shania about the fact that she is going on with him. But she is simply ''keeping'' him (like a pet), thats all, or probably she is sooo infatuated ( i dont think its luv) that she simply cant lose him to shania. Shania on the other hand, has no clue. So both Carlysia and this guy are really going to end up hurting Shania in the whole process. And when that happens the guy may leave Carlysia as well, or there would be this on and off issues, like make up and break up, because Carlysia at a later point of time will not forget that he is a two timer. So since Carlysia is the person who knows about it all, she ought to confront the guy and inform Shania on exactly what is happening. Funny, Carlysia has not already done it, considering she knows everyting, might even teach him not to fool around with more than one person.
LOL! I am just trying to understand what I wrote myself....I was wondering where you figure in between all this. Are you Carlysia ? or Shania, which is unlikely considering that Shania is the one who is clueless. But if you are none of the three, keep away. This will be out some day, and you may see three people walking away in different directions. It wont last, playing circus with relationships, and honestly, the guy is not even worth it from what you have said about him.
hope that helped..
2006-11-21 05:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't get involved!!!!!
Don't tell either of the girls how nieve they are being and don't persuade them to break up with him! You can talk to the dude, and tell him how stupid he is and how wrong he's being, but watch what you say. Don't blab things like, "She knows about you cheating". That will cause you to be involved.
Yea, it is a sad thing to see when a good friend is in danger of being hurt, but the best thing you can do is be there for her, without being involved in this mess. Make sure (whichever of the girls it is) you friend has your shoulder to cry on. When the sh*t hits the fan, make sure you're prepared to be there for her.
Good luck with this mess..... I'd venture to guess you'll need it!!! lol
;o)
2006-11-21 05:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating the dude and take pictures. Send them to both "gurls" and let the cards fall where they may. Guy sounds like a creep, so why name the females but not the jerk? Shady.
2006-11-21 05:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by sandostrich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let them worry about it unless you are one of the "girls". The girl that knows the dude is cheating should tell him she knows, and doesn't care. She apparently has self esteem issues, no man or woman is worth them cheating on you. Diseases also come into mind.
2006-11-21 05:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shania should get some guts and tell him that she knows. She should tell him that she loves him and that, if he's willing to, they can get help. Otherwise, she needs to dump him. That's too much drama.
2006-11-21 05:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my friend (married her boyfriend a year ago) and sadly, his family is still treating her in an impersonal way, the only way to deal hun is if utruly love and care about him, then don't worry about his family, they'll come around on their own time, just be the great person that u r!
2016-05-22 07:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they all need to come clean and get this mess resolved. This is crazy and all should get together and figure it out. What is the worst that could happen they could all move on with their lives and leave this situation, oh heaven forbid.
2006-11-21 05:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's to much Carlysia need to leave him alone and stop playing some body's rebound and i would let the other gurl know to so she won't go around thinking her man is perfect and faithful.
2006-11-21 05:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not confuse at all...the guy is a player and is up to the girl who knows what is going on to stay with him or not...shhh
2006-11-21 05:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck to the guy having 2 women and why do you care about this ?why is this a big confusion problem to you.?
2006-11-21 05:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋