I have a habbit of smiling while I talk , I constantly grin when I make converstation that's how I feel comfortable . but I'm going on a 1st date does this look akward or give some kind of signal to him ? do I come across as a very friendly if I do this , and is it okay to come across as a very friendly person on 1st date what do guys think about this ?
2006-11-21 05:09:59 · 14 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, smiles are friendly and welcoming. I like girls that smile and that can smile for me when I make them happy! Just because you smile alot, or, more so than others, doesn't make you a weird person or wrong for smiling all the time, especially when you are listening or talking. You are being yourself and nothing more, so smile away! Of course, you may want to read your date's reactions, but definitely don't stop smiling because he wants you to stop or not do it so much. Just explain yourself to him, like you did with us, and he can take it or leave it! Believe me, you will find someone who will admire your smile and your friendly outward personality! Knock'em dead!
2006-11-21 05:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I kind of do the same thing, but normally I'll end up laughing or have 1st date jitters and being as quiet as a mouse. Try not to smile too much, it could scare someone or they'll think your wierd or something lol depending on the person of course. Just try to be you, that's the best you can do... if you smile a lot oh well, nothing wrong being happy.
2006-11-21 13:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Smiling isn't bad. You will be ok. I used to get in so much trouble growing up because I smile when I'm nervous. My dad would start getting mad at me for something and I would smile at first and then he would think I was laughing at him - you get the picture. Anyway Keep Smiling...My ex did nothing but frown constantly and everyone who was around him wondered what the heck was wrong with him - he liked to be the center of attention and that was his way of doing that.
2006-11-21 13:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you can smile on your date and it's ok to be friendly that's what dates are for. But watch out if there is some kissing because your lips won't feel soft. Good luck xxx
2006-11-21 13:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Susan C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u smile alot thats what makes u comfortable then do it. from research if you smile at the person talking to u , f they were feeling nervous it puts them at ease and helps them open up more. it depends on the guy you are going out with, is he comfortable with you smilin if he aint too bad dnt change for him smile all the way to the date .
2006-11-21 13:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is not enough smiles in this world. Any fella would be blessed with a smiling lady on their first date. It helps other's to relax and be themselves also. Best of luck on your date, and smile proudly!!
2006-11-21 13:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have that same identical thing going on. Guys always want me to look them in the eyes and I start smiling, and they always assume I'm laughing at them or something. I can't help it. Wish I could stop it.
2006-11-21 13:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by JenJen♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When a girl smiles alot that is a very big turn on.
2006-11-21 13:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This sounds lie a charming quality. I bet you will find it is very appealing to the opposite sex.
Imagine someone happy talking to you. Great!
2006-11-21 13:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, you should keep it going. I love to see a smile on anyones face. Good job
2006-11-21 13:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋