i was there first, i know he like me and i like him and even show told him how i feel, he said, he is not looking relationship. okay so like they said be friend with him and the time will come, which i did.
now he is dating some else and i was there first.
u know when someone like u. he pay attention to me when i start talking, look at me alot, like to come around where i work just to see if i am there. sit nest to me and flirt with me.
i am not mad at him but it hurt.
after all he has done and still act interesting.
why guy do thing like that?
he doesn't know that i know he have a gf.
had this ever happen 2 u before?
2006-11-21 05:06:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was not that into you, but kept you around "Just in case"
Very shallow of him,
Consider it his loss and move on girl!!!!!!
There are so many good men out there, just don't go looking in bars to find them!
Try a Library, Civic Group, or Church.
Peace Good Luck and God Bless you!
2006-11-21 05:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, sexyback, all is fair in dating. It does not matter that you were there first, or that you made the first move, or that you kissed him first. We're talking about affairs of the heart, here, and people have to follow their heart.
Your fella is dating another, but he has the right to date others. If he is flirting with you just to make the other angry, then that is wrong. As long as it's dating, there is nothing wrong with him being interested in several girls.
So you have a choice. Either ask him out on a date, or move on. If you date him you will get to know him better, and maybe win his heart. Don't worry about the other girls he may be dating; your concern is what happens between you and him.
2006-11-21 13:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it may not have happened to me, or many other pple, but I can tell you that flirting, getting attracted, showing signs that may seem as if they are interested in you could be a misunderstanding. If he was interested, he would have atleast confirmed it with words or in action. But merely paying attention to someone, which shows that the person could be a good listener, to see if you are around could be cos' he may be attracted to you, but probably not all in love with you enough to tell you about it, and flirting with you could be this guy thing. Some guys are good talkers, and know just how to make woman feel good with words sometimes.
Yes, it hurt I am sure, but then arent you glad that you saw what is real ? I mean, that he is going on with someone. If you are sure he doesnt know that you know about his gf, you could always casually, lightly tease him about this girl and see how he reacts...if he gives you those confirming smiles on what you said is true, then you know that he really likes you only as a freind, and not to pursue the matter anymore...but if he doesnt confirm or agree on what you said, it could mean two things, one, that he is actually flirting with you, while going on with the other girl, and doesnt want to confirm your thoughts so that he can have it all or second, that what you have heard could be gossip, and probably he is not seeing anyone after all.
But then move on. Your life does not end there.
2006-11-21 13:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop waiting around for him, he is obviously playing games with you, and who would want to be with someone who is playing games. Don't you deserve better? And as soon as you get someone else he will pay even more interest to you. Again a game. Treat yourself with with some respect.
2006-11-21 13:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!
if he hasnt told you about his gf, and you are friends, maybe he is trying to hide her from you, which may mean that he really likes you both and doesnt know who to pick. i know youve been waiting already a while, but maybe just wait a little more and see how things work out.
2006-11-21 13:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a dirtbag. He is totally taking advantage of the fact that you like him. Move on. you can and will do better. He is taken. He's not for you.
2006-11-21 13:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by -- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb as hard as you can. He isn't worth the time and effort to worry about.
2006-11-21 13:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by onetreasuredpet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he respects you too much, Perhaps you made him feel like that.
Be natural
2006-11-21 13:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by mrdadoush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have and the easy answer is they like the other person better than they like us --- it hurts but thats life
2006-11-21 13:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him, find a real nice guy, not a poser
2006-11-21 13:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋