I'm shy, but I am a good looking girl, people want to know why I'm still single. I get hit on but I dont' like the hey baby, hey sexy type of thing. I have to be attracted to him. I want to know how should I approach a guy I find attractive, If I want to get his number and get to know him better? Are there any specfic places I can go to meet nice guys? It's time for a boyfriend.
2006-11-21 05:03:22 · 14 answers · asked by brown21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not shy...just a little psycho. Go to a supermarket and check the guys you like. See what they are buying. Most guys who have a girl or wife will depend on her to go shopping. You'll see whats in his basket and determine if its his or some elses. You'll less likely find a "hey baby, hey sexy" in a supermarket, library, bookstore, church, laundrymatte. Good luck
2006-11-21 05:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by loanbrokerprograms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a lot of friends meet people online like at eharmony so you are matched by interests and not just by a clever line.
I agree with the others that you should not be afraid to be open to other guys. I know some really great women who are single because they just sit back and seem unapproachable to guys.
See this website: http://www.cloudtownsend.com/
I have heard a great talk by these guys on dating, and especially regarding how women should be open to doing things that make them more available and proactive in finding a guy.
I know of this couple where the wife was interested so she bought tickets to a show she knew he wanted to see and then asked if anyone wanted to go with her. It worked and now they are married.
2006-11-21 06:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by romanseight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really all about being yourself... If you see a guy you think you might be intersted in honey just remember he is the lucky one that you want to date him and NO I'm not telling you to get the big head or anything but it will help boost your confidence level so that you won't feel so nervous. When you find the guy your after I promise there will be will power in there you didn't know you had. One thing a girl can count on is that when she wants something she gets it!!!
2006-11-21 05:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to quit waiting for the nice guys to approach you, and get the nerve to approach them.
if you sit around and wait, 9 times out of 10, you'll be getting the sleazy "hey baby" crap. You need to be able to ask out the guys YOU are interested in.
Sorry ladies, it's a new millenium, and if you want it, you gotta go get it yourself!!
2006-11-21 05:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The malls, shopping centers, tool department at hardware/lumber stores, local outings, free concerts, and a gym.
It's been 5 yrs for me and I'm bout ready myself..now if I can just talk myself into it..you know..getting out and trying to meet someone...good luck
2006-11-21 05:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try online personals. This way, you can get to know someone in a less-pressured e-mail "environment" before you actually commit to seeing them in real life. This is how I met my husband - we're both kind of anti-social, and don't like to "meet" and "mingle" with lots of people. I met lots if people online before I met him - it wasn't fast or easy; but for me, it was the most suitable way to meet people.
2006-11-21 05:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and ask him out. You just need to take a deep breath and walk right up to him. Good luck!
2006-11-21 05:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say if there is one that you are interested in then build up the nerve and ask him out, sometimes you just got to go for what you want, or someone else will get it.
2006-11-21 05:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have not met the right guy yet. just be yourself and the right one will come along . you can start conversations with some guys you like
2006-11-21 05:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to a guy, and ask him
2006-11-21 05:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋