2006-11-21 05:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by undecided587 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here are a few tips:
Be honest but sensitive. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it's over. Unless, of course, the truth is you've stopped finding us attractive, you've met someone better, or that you're just plain bored with us.
Inform him that getting to know him has improved your life though there are some things that aren't working out. At this point, you can name the things that you feel are suitable. Make sure to give some sort of reason, other than saying "I don't want to date you anymore", as this will only make the him more unhappy.
Tell the person that you have tried to cope with the shortcomings but due to specific reasons you can not hold onto them any longer.
Once you have begun the process, establish concrete boundaries for your future interaction. Be polite, but firm about these boundaries and make it clear that they are non-negotiable. Let him call you when he's ready.
Good luck....
2006-11-21 05:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you have finished using the poor guy you want to dump him. You are probable one of those women that ask why men treat women so bad. The next time you ask the question just look in the mirror for the answer.
2006-11-21 13:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him that you don't love him anymore. First you tell him " Thank you for everything you have bought me and everything you have done for me but I think we both need to move on. I'm really sorry." or something like that. then make sure he is OK. then go find another mate that you love.
2006-11-21 13:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by halouno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you found another "sugar daddy" and he can't afford to buy you the things you want anymore...and finish it off by telling him to get a check up, because it sounds to me like you're a fairly cheap date!
2006-11-21 13:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him nicely that you don't have the same feelings anymore and that you should go your separate ways.
2006-11-21 13:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsum691 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont like him anymore. say u dont want to hurt him but that u don't want to use him either
2006-11-21 13:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by harli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him buy you a trip somewhere he can't go
2006-11-21 13:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him as J-LO has said.."my love dont cost a thing...".tell him that you need his love not his wallet.
2006-11-21 13:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him
2006-11-21 13:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give me his email, and i'll tell him for you.
2006-11-21 13:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by jesus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋