Ok so my gf and I broke up Sunday. Im not really sure if this will be the ultimate end. She said she wants space because its seems like I don't appreciate her or the relationship. I told her wateva she wants is fine with me. But I was planning on giving her a promise ring. she said she still wants it but Im unsure should I give it to her?
2006-11-21 04:59:24 · 17 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and her really have to just work things out before anything like a promise ring is given. Sure, a promise ring isnt that big of a deal its not as big as proposing, but it still has some meaning behind it. If you are unsure about giving her the promise ring, don't give it to her. Wait until you are 100% sure that it's something you want to do.
2006-11-21 05:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..
Do not give her the promise ring..
Yu 2 are split up..and it might be for good..
She ended it, and does not deserve or is even entitled to any thing of great value from you..
It totally ruins the whole meaning behind it anyway...
Just return it if you can and spend the cash on yourself..or save it for "the real thing" with someone else in the future...
2006-11-21 13:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give her the ring if you broke up. It is suppose to be a promise of the love you both share.
2006-11-21 13:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On Good gracious No, You two broke up and she isn't entitled to a promise ring. A promise ring is that exactly, a promise. What promise is she giving you?
2006-11-21 13:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by onetreasuredpet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants a promise ring but she doesn't want to be with you??? what drugs are you taking? i'm sorry. there is no such thing as a break in a relationship. what's gonna happen down the road when something hard happens? she's gonna take a break and leave you hanging. real relationships stick it out no matter what. there is no such thing as space.
2006-11-21 13:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She does not want to break up with you. She wants you to pay more attention to what is important to her.
Sit down with her and listen to her. Ask her what she wants in your relationship and then make sure that you remember what she says. Add those things to your relationship and give her that promise ring.
Take care and Good Luck,
Troy
2006-11-22 08:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it to her in person (look like youre at the point of tears) and say "goodbye" then walk away, she'll bug u for awhile saying she still likes u and wants u back and stuff, let her sweat it out a while before u finally take her back, look like ur doing it reluctantly, maybe even come up with a speech... she will never leave you again unless she is leaving for the last time
2006-11-21 13:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants space and the ring. something isnt right here. my thoughts are she is on the way to pawn shop or ebay. dont give her the ring. keep it for someone who deserves it and really wants it b/c of hte meaning and not the value
2006-11-21 13:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should think about it if its true that that is the only reoson for her breaking up with you maybe if you pay more attention to her you will come back together good luck.
2006-11-21 13:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kostya G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She gets nothing until both of you are sure about the relationship and it's future.
2006-11-21 13:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Deana S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋