2006-11-21 04:39:31 · 24 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best friends should not have sex ... unless they are two hot blonde chicks ... in my bedroom.
2006-11-21 04:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything can be done if common sense and maturity is considered.
Nothing in this world is absolute. I see too many people giving absolute answers'.
I have been having an intimate relationship with a female friend of mine off and on since 1995 and it has never effected our friendship. We can go at everyday for a week or go a year or two without ever having sex, but our friendship has been constant. We don't mess with each other sexually if the other one is in a relationship with someone else. We have too much respect for our current lovers and our friendship to do that.
If you must know; the reason why we have only had an intimate relationship and never a steady thing, because our goals in life are not compatible to make a relationship work, but the friendship never dies. Sex is like watching a baseball game on TV for us. After the homerun is hit, game over, fans go home!
2006-11-21 13:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with your best friend could be good or bad it all depends on what type of relationship you guys have. Now if its only friends with benefits, thats wrong. I can only say it ok if you both agree but in the long run the relationship might go down because of lack of respect, but it can also be a good thing maybe he's the guy you might marry. My boyfriend and I have been bestfriends since we were small, but two years ago we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and soon to be married. Well good luck to you and if your young please use protection and avoid consequences. Holla back ya gurl!!!
2006-11-21 12:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by booty2lious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the numbers are not on your side sorry to say. but if both parties discuss the options - possibilities - repurcussions and have an emotional contract upfront - it could work. but that is a lot of work for just plain sex. if it is more than plain sex and you guys are made for each other - you might not be best friends anymore - you might be the perfect couple! i always thought the perfect couple should be best friends.
2006-11-21 12:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends can have sex cause they have been friends for a long time now and can really know what to expect from that best friend no matter what comes up.
2006-11-21 12:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done that before and nothing has changed between us we are still bestfriends. So i mean it is really up to you and your best friend.
2006-11-21 12:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long has he been your best friend?? It could lead to loosing your friendship....but if you know him then you should know how he should act.....plus most of the guys that have best friends want their real girl to be like them...so there is a fifty / fifty chance
2006-11-21 12:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lie8Les 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would end up being a problem unless you stay in a relationship with them but are no longer just friends.
2006-11-21 12:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by SHASHAS=) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be like dude i've known you since i was 6
NO I WILL NOT MAKE OUT WITH YOU
but i also consider my g/f to be my best friend too so i think it could work out on that level
2006-11-21 13:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that ruins your friendship. Most of the time one will fall in love.
2006-11-21 12:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by muñeca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋