I mean stop trying to get involved in our relationship. Stop telling me thats your baby not mine when we are engaged.
2006-11-21 04:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by 2sweet2b4got10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, That is your partner's job to tell his mother to back off. If you tell her there will be all kinds of heck to pay. He has chosen to be with you and he should protect you. He can stop her meddling and rudeness and nip it in the bud right now saving any more problems in the future. Good Luck!
2006-11-21 04:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinesue_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, do I ever have the same exact problem!! I want to scream "Cut the cord woman!!" sometimes. Geez. But, I have finally just accepted, yes accepted, that she will never view me as the perfect woman for her son. Not only do I get this abuse from her but from my fiancee's brother as well. By accepting this as the way it is and probably always will be I have eliminated a lot of future resentments that I could end up with, my stress level is down and my blood has stopped boiling. I finally just came to the conclusion: "She doesn't have to love me and that is ok." I am only concerned with her sons love and I have that!! Acceptance is the answer because you can't change her and you'll go crazy trying.
2006-11-21 04:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Grateful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know as difficult as it is, it's better to try and avoid any conflicting situations with her by just letting it go-just be kind- and respectful to her-even give her a little gift now and then or make a nice dish for her and you will win her over. She will realise how mean she has been because her meanness will stand out to her . Do this for yourself too as you don't want to be turned into a meany person also. Keep control of you so you can always be who you are. Best of Luck!!
2006-11-21 04:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by VelvetRose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your partner how you feel concerning his mother, and let him know that she is making you feel uncomfortabel every time you are near or with her.
Perhaps, if you let him know how you feel, he will tell his mom to back off some...even tell him what she is telling you.
The mother should leave u two alone, now that you two are going to become one. It is not her place to barge into your relationship.....
2006-11-21 04:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can gently ask her to respect the space that you are trying to create with your partner as you make your choices about your new life together, but ultimately, it's them who's going to have to stand up to her and let her know that they have chosen you as their life partner and that she needs to respect that decision, even if she disapproves of it.
2006-11-21 04:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sola_Balisane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your partnet about her. You know the movie Monster in Law? Well maybe that will work :)
2006-11-21 04:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by MRz.Nels0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOS BABY?
2006-11-21 04:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by misskashmere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋