I caught him lying to me about where he was. He kept making up excuses as to where he was so i actually went to the place he said he was going to be and he wasnt there. when i asked him what he was doing he said he was driving around thinking about things and insists that that is the truth, however while i was on the phone with him i didnt hear any sounds of him driving (usually i hear the engine in the backround) we fought, and he ended up crying. is he telling the truth or lying?
2006-11-21 04:36:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I bet he lied to you because he was actually out buying you an engagement ring! Congratulations in advance!
2006-11-21 05:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jayson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, I'm not sure that it's the things that your boyfriend is doing that should have you so concerned, but the fact that you have to be so unsure of what he's doing. I would hate to be in a place where I was continually doubting what my partner was saying or doing. I guess you should break it down to this -
1. If he WAS lying what steps will you take next? Do you plan to break up with him or just have a firm conversation with him? Will you be okay knowing that he lied to you in the past and will likely do it again?
2. If he WAS NOT lying what steps do you plan to take next? Are you okay being paranoid about what your boyfriend is doing? Do you want to be in a relationship that exists without trust?
I wouldn't be concerned with his crying, people cry for various reasons and unless you had a magic truth serum, I'm not sure you could get him to explain his exact reasoning - the tears could be enduced by guilt or from sorrow, but in either case it really doesn't matter, because the bottom line is YOU don't trust him.
Look inside yourself and evaluate what you want from this relationship. It's easy to place blame on the other partner when you have misgivings, but ultimately you have to sort out how YOU feel, and then you can determine how YOU are going to handle it. Good luck with things!
2006-11-21 05:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, go with you're gut!!! If you think he's lying, he probably is.
No one knows the truth but him, he may have been crying because he got caught and is scared, Or if he is telling the truth and was out driving, what did he have to think on so much that it caused him to tell you a lie? Maybe there is really something wrong and he is crying because he is so confussed or scared but if he can't tell you something earth schattering that is going on, I say he's crying to make you feel bad for him, so he will get out of trouble.
I tell my daughter all the time, don't give a man to much credit, he is only a man. and if you expect to much, you will only be hurt!!( sorry guys- but MOST of you prove it true- all the time!!)
2006-11-21 04:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're checking to see where your boyfriend is really at, don't worry about the fact that he may be lying to you or not. Focus on the problems that you know already exist: A lack of respect and trust. My advice is to always focus on the problems that are in front of your rather than try and find more problems to worry about.
2006-11-21 10:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because He can't tell you the truth or because he is going out with another girl and he is a little confused. He maybe don't know if he has to leave you. I think he still loves you but he has the other girl in order to have fun
2006-11-21 04:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Evita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in a man's nature to lie. That's the only thing that they can do constitantly outside of having sex...
Oh, and the tears are just a way of him playing you so you will feel bad about accusing him of lying
2006-11-21 04:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by prtibrneyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is lying but find out why he feels he has to lie to you. Do the same thing to him one day and see how it makes him feel.Payback sucks!
2006-11-21 04:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste my time asking question. If you feel he is cheating 9 out of 10 he is. Girl start loving yourself your spending to much time on him. Listen if he cares about he will show it. Move on there are many fish in the sea. Love yourself.
2006-11-21 04:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by sassylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey he is lien if he says he aint goin no where he is lien if he was going with you and if he really loves he should tell you where he really is going you feel me if i was you i would have a little time apart you kno and if he really loves you he will come back but i say he is a LIAR and he shouldn't lie to you either well hope this works bye
2006-11-21 04:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by ♥diamond♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um somthing is wrong wit your man i think if he was telling the truth he wouldn't cry if he was lying. Think About It?
2006-11-21 04:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by american girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋