he's got a nice body (normal) and he's got the perfect job and apartment and car but the guy doesn't take me out, he doesn't wine and dine, we end up at his house watching TV and talking sh!t tells me his personal stuff, and then we end up in bed and to top it all off the SEX is bad its so bad that I end up thinking about my job and what I need to get done and wash my clothes...why in god's name do I continue to see this guy what the hell is wrong with me? LOL I'm not dating anyone else could that be it, could it be that cause I have no one else I'm settling with him intill I find a new guy? This guy does nothing to me sexually NOTHING he has a small penis...the only thing he know's how to do is KISS that's it.
2006-11-21 03:56:39 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ur right that's gotta be it...ANd every time I go and I have this hope he'll be better than the last time and it becomes worst than the last time..LOL
2006-11-21 04:02:43 · update #1
He's nice to me but not that nice..he doesn't take me out he's iight!
2006-11-21 04:05:15 · update #2
people he has a small penis.lol..I can't deal with that, I have been trying for 6 months its not working! and I don't cheat..
2006-11-21 04:07:32 · update #3
I'll just dump him, he thinks he's the man bro,...he can't even do it with his mouth! LOL
2006-11-21 04:08:59 · update #4
Is that you Natasha?!!
How dare you insult me on here!! You could have at least talked to me in person.
Disgraceful!!
ha ha ha ha ha ha
2006-11-21 04:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so he doesn't do anything for you at all - especially in bed, but you're still with him?
Either you're stupid, or in love with him.
Try this:
Take him to bed and run the whole show. As long as you're not yelling out commands, you can be in control of the whole situation, he won't get offended, and he'll probably be getting off on the whole thing.
The sex should get a little better, because you're getting it the way you want it. In the mean time he's learning how you like it too.
Sounds like a win/win there.
The rest of that, you'll work out on your own.
2006-11-21 12:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH....my GOSH!!! You sound just like me in my exact situation!!! Scary!!! I just got out of a situation just like that, except his penis was big and the sex was good, but....he stopped taking me out and I felt that he was always ridiculing me. Put it this way there's more to my story and it was bad and I asked myself the same damn question. Why am I with him. I finlay had enough of his crap and moved on. See....it's easier for me to do that. I use to go back and forth with him. Now....I am completely done with him. I figured if I want to meet a guy...I'm not going be able to when I am sleeping with him all the time. It's more so....will power and occupy your time with something else...such as the gym or pick up a new hobby. Easier said then done, but girl....I'm glad I left him alone. He was just bringing me down. After that....I finally started meeting guys. Try to take my advice and good luck too you. Get out of the situation as fast as you can!!!
2006-11-21 12:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r funny =0) do whatever u want to do cause no matter what we tell u , u will still do what u want and my hunny has a small penis and im OKAy with it not all the time tho i do have those times i WISHED it was BIGGEr lol =0) but i luv the boy what can i say ... u will NEVER find a perfect guy ever so dont even try
2006-11-21 12:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by i luv penguins =0p 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could say that is shallow but the truth is that sex is very important in a relationship when it comes down to it.. Don't settle.
2006-11-21 12:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumb girl, the only way you can be content is to have a boyfriend, you have to have a backup plan and another guy to cling to when it ends with this one, I feel bad for the sucker who ends up with you, Why don't learn to live on your own and be content with yourself and not dependent on guys for fulfillment
2006-11-21 12:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very shallow for a person to not like them because of their sexual performance.If he treats you right,makes you happy emotionally and tries his best to please you sexually then the next guy may have a big penis but treat you like crap.
2006-11-21 11:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are settling, get out and meet someone else
2006-11-21 11:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by amandamartin49 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your bored
2006-11-21 11:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋