Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship. We see eachother often but not often enough..when we are going to spend time together it is a big deal for us. Tomorrow night he want me to dress in sexy lingerie and do a dance. Its not really my type of thing but i want to keep him entertained. I am very shy person and i feel really funny dancing in front of him ..i feel stupid not sexy..what can i do to not feel so dumb while im doing this?
2006-11-21 03:34:59 · 13 answers · asked by yesindeed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah tell him to dance for you first . PASS NEXT!
2006-11-21 03:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Back Off Jack ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just put your thoughts aside... believe me if you are moving to the music, you can't help but look sexy....
If you don't think you know the right moves, you can always visit a strip club to see how dancing is done by pros.
Or you can find "stripping" how to books in the booksstore.
Check out the "stripper's workout books"
Good luck, you go girl!
p.s. try to learn how to do a lap dance on your bf... he'll really like that.
Don't be shy learning from othe women how to "be sexy".
p.p.s. Women come by sexiness naturally, try being sexy if your a guy.
2006-11-21 03:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then tell him and don't. A nervous lap dance is not sexy, your man will feel more like a pervert.
On the other hand, if you want, you can figure out what your real fears are. Maybe its your moves, maybe your afriad of failure, maybe your afraid of you body image. Personally as a man, and if he likes you. He won't care about body flaws, and there is a great chance that he likes what you don't like about yourself. I suggest looking up on the net for some webcam sexy dances and work on some moves. Also its not about the moves, its about the confidence, but you have to get rid of the fears first. Lasty, Tie his hands, and remember to straddle everything.
2006-11-21 03:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get into sexy lingerie but you don't have to do the dance. Tell him you don't want to being shy and it isn't your thing. Smile at him when you tell him and ask him if he will dance for you? I'm sure he loves you enough to understand.
2006-11-21 03:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go rent Carmen Electra's Striptease workout (the first or third ones are best). It has lots of sexy moves, and even a few mini-dances you could learn. Should help a LOT. Plus, pick a song you are familiar with, that has a strong but somewhat slow beat (no hard rock or rap).
2006-11-21 03:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by physicsmom04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drink a little first to loosen yourself up, then just dance like your dancing for yourself in front of the mirror. you can watch a movie with strippers to get some idea of how to dance or visit a strip club. many places have striptease and pole dancing classes. i've heard they are a lot of fun.
2006-11-21 03:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to listen to some s eriously sexy music.... which makes you feel sexy and empowered! A sexy dance is all about power.... and who holds it!
I suggest a song like Buttonz by Pussycat dolls.... very empowering!!!!
Then all you have to do is lower the light and swing the hips, play with him... tease him and let the sparks fly....
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-21 04:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by greenbloomers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel and perhaps he will be considerate to your feelings. But do still dress extremely sexy to compensate for your shyness. Shake your butt in front of him, sway your hips from side to side slowly, get on the ground and whip your hair around......something that you would feel comfortable doing.
I use to be there, until I signed up for this class called 'Womans Power' and the instructor(who use to be a dancer) shows us how to shake our butt and walk all sexy with a sex feen look in your eyes, and how to roll on the floor and open your legs for him to look and see ur goods....that kind of thing.
Maybe you can sign up for a class like that before he comes to visit.....those classes are great to get you to be more comfortable with yourself.
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2016-04-21 04:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel uncomfortable, then don't do it and if he loves you then he will understand. If he keeps pressuring you into it and you really don't want to do it then he's just being an ***. If my husband asked me to do something that I didn't want to do, I would straight up tell him no and if he gets mad, screw him. He can get over it. ( But then again i am married, so I can't just break up with him and go somewhere else.) Just don't do something that makes you feel uncomfortable just to make him happy. He should atleast be happy enough just to see you and spend time with you.
2006-11-21 03:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by angels_killed_me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
put on head phones and close your eyes, yo know drink a lil, do whatever the hoes at the strip club do, cause thats what he wants, and if you want him to stay outta the strip clubs then you better get un-shy quickly
2006-11-21 03:37:39 · answer #11 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋