“Does she look better than me”?
Is this some kind of a trap? What do you girls want to hear? Either way we are done right? If a guy says no, then we are a liar~If we say yes all hell breaks lose!
2006-11-21 03:25:06 · 37 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you do DON'T ANSWER THE QUESTION!
Because females CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!
Source: Past experience.
2006-11-21 03:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Not everytime this question comes up, the intent is the same. It never is usually to trap us. Sometimes, it is to hear how you react and/or what you say to that question, And sometimes, it might be a genuine question.
If you can just personalize your answer - for instance say "to me, you look like the princess you've always looked to me" or "I don't know what someone else might feel, but I do feel you are just as gorgeous" - might be some ways you can handle this.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-21 03:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women have millions of insecurities. They want to look better than any other woman in the eyes of their significant other. Try complimenting more, sometimes this is like reassurance, then maybe the "question" may not arise so often. Dont lie, cause youll get caught in that. You can always answer the question in a positive manner that is like "Baby its hard to look as good as you"! That answers the question and you can still think what you want.
2006-11-21 03:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sudie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good point, I have asked that stupid question before or even said, " I see you fancy her" only to get a boot under the table with a mean reply from my man. lol.... I have learned to get over it, he is only human, and it is only looking. He has made it clear he loves me and only me, sheesh he traveled over 4000 miles to meet me. ( met nearly 7 years ago on americansingles) so I know he does truly adore me because he married me, so I stopped with My insecurity. Take Care...... Oh and have I asked the stupid question also" does this make me look fat?". He said honestly.... with a long pause? No! he said...I cried. Silly me.... learned how to not ask such stupid questions, but the make up after that argument was hmm... lovely... Take Care
2006-11-21 08:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha..ha...That is a pretty lame question for any woman to ask anyone...good thing most women are mature enough not to ask that.
Now since we have that cleared..a better yet question would be...
Why do men get so bent out of shape when a woman mentions the name "Paul Walker" and call him a "neocon"??????? LOL!!
2006-11-21 03:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they need to get a grip! I cant stand that! I never ask that DUMB question! It is a sign of being insecure. If they wanna know about something, ask their best girl friend, not a guy!!!!
Another thing....Why do girls ask guys about fashion? Its pointless. Like he cares if you have the new heels from NM or if you have the new purse from Guess?!?!??!?! If they know the answer, BE AFFRAID, be very affraid!!!
2006-11-21 03:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by calicohottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comeing from a female we know that you look at other girls (both when we are around and when we are not) so we want to kno how you feel about a sertan girl its all about our selfasteam you say yes and and that makes us think there is something wrong with us that we are not good enough for you!!!! if you say know we know that a female is hot but say something like yea she's alright but not as good as you then we wont get so mad !!!!
2006-11-21 04:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women ask that question to see if her guy would make a move on the other women if she weren't around. Reassurance is the best response for that one. Or hell no, she's nasty, also helps to reassure us?
2006-11-21 03:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the woman that asked you that is trying to find out if she is the one you care about most of all. usually the looks of a woman influence the man's attitude, that's why the most beautiful women attract the attention of the most part of the males...
she just wantes to be loved by you...
2006-11-21 03:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a trap. They are not looking for the answer either way but rather by how we phrase our answer.
2006-11-21 03:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by john n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the most part I would think the girl is insecure. However, I think it would be an appropriate question to ask if you were staring at this particular girl all night...
2006-11-21 03:29:36 · answer #11 · answered by KMAB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋