HOw could I except whatever God gave me and how will I ever be happy? I am not too pretty just an average person but in my mom's opinion I am pretty and average.
2006-11-21 03:12:44 · 11 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You will be happy because you make your own happiness. God gives you the tools, it is up to you how you use them. Don't compare yourself to others as you are unique.............
2006-11-21 03:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling pretty is on the inside of a person. But neat hair and a little makeup never hurts either.
Makeup is my best friend because it blends uneven skin tone if you have any. Plus it helps aqcinuate what God did give you.
Eating right and exercise helps me too.
I know my daughter is average without makeup, but put some around her dark brown eyes and they just pop and she is beautiful! I am sure you are too.
My daughter doesn't think she is pretty either.
2006-11-21 03:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Momwithaheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All moms say their kids are pretty and handsome, but you shouldn't worry about your physical aspect. i did worry a lot about mine and it caused big problems to me (i had no self-confidence, had difficulty to trust people, etc.). fortunately, i found the man who loves the real me and even if i keep on thinking i'm not really pretty and that everything is a mess in my life, i'm very happy of what God gave me, because all these things make who i am and without that, i would have never met my boyfriend. so stop worrying and good luck! you'll be happy someday soon
2006-11-21 03:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by domy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does being pretty mean everything to you? These are superficial things and desires. Thing about the tangibles: what do you have to offer the world in terms of talent or giving? How can you contribute to your community in a positive and changing way? If you concentrate on these things, being "pretty" seems pretty dumb.
2006-11-21 03:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right, first step to do is take a look at yourself in a full length mirror and accept the way you look, do this over a period of time and very soon your brain too will accept you. everyone has some good points about themselves, find out what yours are and work on them, think positive about life in general and gradually your depression will disappear, you have to like yourself otherwise others will soon catch on to your way of thinking. also smile and laugh more it is very infectious, soon you will be happy and probably made a new set of friends. good luck.
2006-11-21 03:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the gods and religions. Eat proper food and start a new exiting hobby or something. Lay some positiveness to your everydaylife.
If you start feeling better about yourself, you start to appear better for the others most likely :)
2006-11-21 03:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, dont let people tell you what you are, you are what you make of yourself. if you think youre pretty youare you dont need other people to tell you what you are. beauty is in the inside...give yourself time it is possible that god has the most beatifuul gift planned for you but you just have to wait until god thinks that it is time
2006-11-21 03:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to except it.. that's life sweet heart.. no one picks their looks from a catalog.. we get what we get.. and if you are not happy about it change your hair, loose weight, work out, get a makeover, there are things you can do to make your self feel better about how you look. what other people think is bull crap anyway the only person you have to please is your self....so be proud be strong and take care of your self..
2006-11-21 03:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by iwearpink4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This god you refer to gave you nothing. You inherited your genetics from your parents...and there is nothing wrong with being pretty and average. Chin up!
2006-11-21 03:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Zelda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's a problem of confidence it seems. my fiance is the most beautiful woman int he world! she doesnt seem to think so, though. it's a matter of confidence. feel special and proud of yourself and your body, it's the only one you'll ever get
2006-11-21 03:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by HW-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋