I had a brief sex encounter with one of the guys from this fire station where I volunteer. Now he's telling the other guys! Go see me to get "Serviced"! Why would someone do that? Why are they mad at me? He participated too! Why arn't they mad at him? I want to continue my work there but fear it's over and have lost all respect from them.
2006-11-21 03:11:15 · 12 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girst of all you need to have a hell of a lot more respect for yourself...like you said "he participated too!" So hold your head up high and put those shoulders back and go to work! Don't base your life on what other people might say or think. Forget about them! Hopefully you enjoyed yourself, take as that and just do your work...someone says something out of line then professionally deal with at work and after work beat his a**!!! Good Luck!
2006-11-21 03:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's doing this to diminish his own insecurity about his masculinity by attacking you. They are attacking you because they would rather believe that you are a [fill in the blank with derogatory term] than believe that 'one of them' could be gay/bisexual -- because that might mean they would have those feelings too. It's easier to think of being serviced as if you were a car getting a tank filled (or emptied in this case) rather than an active participant.
I am sorry to say that you should probably leave. They will never let this go.
2006-11-21 11:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex never works out. He was probably just playing you and now thinks it's funny. He's not very nice, but the best solution is not to get in that situation again. Things will die down eventually.
2006-11-21 11:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go along with the fun or get a different assignment. They do it because they know they can get a rise out of you. Pardon the pun. It's probably part of the initiation process, start giving gory details, describing his genitalia-minimize!-and get in on the fun, trust me it won't be fun for everyone once they see you aren't rattled.
2006-11-21 11:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably was embarassed that he actually did something like that and he probably enjoyed it. He can't face you so he tried to get you out of the fire station. He might not want other people to view him differently.
2006-11-21 11:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he think you are a male whore and want to let the other guys know you put out with him. if you don't feel that you can continue working there find another fire department and volunteer there.this time don't put out. guys do the samething to women tell there friends that they had sex with her.
2006-11-21 11:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is just one of the consequences of having casual sex.
Casual sex has no strings attached. Therefore you can't guarantee even confidentiality with the person you've had casual sex with.
2006-11-21 11:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by WomanOnTop 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sexual harassment, sue the company everyone is entitled to their own orientation
2006-11-21 11:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh boy that guy is upset he probably wanted more than just sex with u...ask him what's his problem?
2006-11-21 11:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he may be embarressed about his feeling and what he did... turn it back around on him.... or just deny deny till it blows over
2006-11-21 11:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋