How should I pursue this. The whole "romantic" thing seems too pretensious and forced for me. It's not really fake on my part, just more thoughtful. But irregardless of what most women say in terms of what they seek from men, the very thing they want seems to push them away more often. I'm not buying them bouquets of flowers and reciting poetry, but it's often gotten me less success with the whole "nice guy" B.S. Where I currently am in my life, as much attention as I'd like to give to myself lately in terms of progress, I most likely have next to no time for a true relationship right now. My question is just how open are single women REALLY to casual sex. The norm and stereotype seems to by they are APPAULED by it. I know this to be a bit of an exaggeration but still don't want to degrade myself personally just to pursue sex and harp on it like a sleaze towards women I meet. Should I tease then openly ask? Openly ask, period? Women's opinions on this one please.
2006-11-21 03:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are plenty of women willing to have casual sex with strangers. Go to any bar at closing time and you can find tons. Just wear a condom because if they're sleeping casually with you, they're doing the same to tons of other guys.
2006-11-21 03:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not going to have romance to get sex then you need $$. Why should a women sleep with you free and clear ?? You want sex without any strings so dont you think you have to make the offer for more than just sex ?? Women can get just sex anywhere. Or you might want to try married women looking for something on the side. I think they are ok with just sex and no strings.
2006-11-21 03:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest...lots of girls are out there looking for a "friend with benefits" my friend Jenna is looking right now! As long as your upfront with your intentions, they can't be mad at you...it is when you start trying to be a sleaze about it...not answering calls, not hanging out for anything but sex...if a girl knows what to expect, she won't get upset when you don't cuddle after a romp in the hay.
2006-11-21 03:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are women out there looking for the exact same thing as u are. thats all they want from a man at this point in their lives. if they dont openly ask u in a weeks time. u ask them.
2006-11-21 03:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do. Start making some friends, male and female. Work out and look good. Once you start hanging around some women in a social setting and they get to drinking....you will get laid.
2006-11-21 03:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in this day and age, the road runs both ways for both genders. There are those who WANT committmant, and there are those who DONT. It's up to YOU to find compatibility with one who feels as you do. But then dont cry about how one may not be sincere enough for you. ;)
2006-11-21 03:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and say that sex is all you are interested in. You will be surprised to find how many women are only interested in sex too.
2006-11-21 03:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always go to a professional, it would probably be cheaper than flowers, dinner, and drinks.
2006-11-21 03:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
al right if you want casual sex go out and buy a whore jerk!
2006-11-21 03:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by rooney8dabom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe we should hook up
2006-11-21 03:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋