Should your boyfriend be cool with this girl that you don't like even though you told him that you and her don't get along but he always saying hi to her and talking to her acting that it doesn't bother you.Because my boyfriend is doing that, I don't know if he's testing me, or he doesn't really care how I feel in this situation.
2006-11-21 03:06:15 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Imani♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your problem lies within you, not him. You are trying to control him and tell him who he should and should be friends with. You can't do that. How do you know that this girl isn't a friend of his? You don't.
You need to trust him. He's not going to cheat on you. He's not testing you, he's trying to keep sane.
Just one hint--lay off of this who he can and cannot be friends with act. If you keep adding in these restrictions, you're going to lose him. Why would he want to be with someone who doesn't trust him?
2006-11-21 03:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should show some respect if the shoe was on the other foot and he told you he didn't like a guy but you repeatedly talk to him he would go through the roof over it! I would suggest having another talk with him and explaining to him that you don't think he quite understood that you and this girl have bad blood with each other and you think he should not act that way towards her especially in front of you. I mean by all means you can't tell him who he can and can't talk to but you do have a right to be respected in that area when he is with you at the time he says hi to her. you get what I mean?
2006-11-21 11:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all thats total disrespect to you and he knows how you feel too about this chicken head. Oh hel hel hel helllllzzzzzzzzz no. If he is testing you don't he realize that he is failing the test and not you and if he just doesn't care then why are you with him. If I were you I'd let him know that something has to give or else I'm gone. You deserve to be treated like a woman and not a play toy or taken for a joke. Stand ya ground and don't let him run all over you.
2006-11-21 11:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have talked to him about it so I would say yoiu should probably ask him if he wants to be with her more then you this may hurt you but chances are he will want you. But make him wonder before you do this stop sitting with him at lunch and dont return his phone calls ignore him in class I would say for about maybe 2-3 days. Thats what I would do but you do what you think you should do. remeber though fighting or revenge isn't the answer. I mean if you put yourself in the other girls shoes and you really like this guy but he has a girl friend wouldn't you try and win him over? I would. well do what ever you think is right nuttin stopin you.
2006-11-21 11:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Number one, you can't expect him to dislike someone just because you don't. Number two, as long as he isn't touching her in anyway, be cool. Number three, if he's testing you, tell him that you failed and free yourself, it's childish to "test" someone, that a good way to get dumped. Number four, you've told him how you feel, there's nothing left but for you to do something about it, stop talking about it and be about it, show him that you are not playing games with him.
2006-11-21 11:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, we are all in-titled to choose our friends, but at the same time we have to respect our partners feelings. You need to ask yourself, why you really dont like this chick? Have you always known her and didnt like her since then, or just meet her with your bf & get that vibe that she after your bf? Or are you just jealous? Just remember if its jealously without a valid reason that might end up effected the relationship with ur bf. Go with your heart, it would never lie to you. Your answer is within you, just listen!!! Good Luck
2006-11-21 11:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by sheriff groupie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is trying to stay out of the bad feelings between you and this girl. Also, just because you do not like someone should he do the same?
2006-11-21 11:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by montrice m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't let that girl get to u. She knows that u don't like her , so what u do is be the happiest person around her don't let her see u get upset around her.If there is a guy ur man don't like just say hi to him ,see how ur man likes it he will probably stop conversation with this chic. Give him a taste of his own medicine.
2006-11-21 11:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by t10t15t66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him.. Because my boyfriend didn't want me to talk to this guy that I was friends with. And when I asked him why he told me cause he disrespected him. The way he had disrespected him was by grabbing me and kissing me. And I was like that's true and I was like I wasn't going to talk to him. He doesn't talk to one of my old friends because he said that she disrespected me by trying t go out with him knowing that we went together and I appreciated that. So I think that you should tell him how bad you dont want him talking too this girl. And he should listen to what you're saying.
2006-11-21 11:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you carry with this you will lose him because he'll see it as control, and this guy of yours seems to have a mind of his own, if she is horrible he'll work it out for himself, just get on with it and don't let it ruin what you and your fella have.. we can't all like the same people and at the end of the day you don't own him, he's your fella not your puppet..
2006-11-21 12:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by free2fall67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋