my boyfrined and i have gone out for almost 1 whole month and i still am in love. usllay by now i want it done with cuz i get sick of seeing the same face every day. but he is differnet the kind of guy who surpises me every day and his face is never trisome.in fact i never found myself in a mood of dislike he is so kind and sweet. we have been in the heat twice but never did anything futher to purse it.he does not push into it but his kisses can drive a girl mad.i never tell a guy that i love him and mean it but i do with him and he seems to feel the same about me. i never have lasted longer than 3 months with a guy but i just know i will with him. i asked a friend of mine how she thinks this guy and i are doing and she relplyed that i seem to be very happy and we are lucky to be together so it seems people think that it is right and i do also i just am always on top of the word love but now i am falling for it that maybe it is really love but i dont want to thorw water into the fire.
2006-11-21 02:59:44 · 18 answers · asked by Playboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think you may just have something good here!
especially since neither of you are pushing the physical relationship. can you talk for hours? do you just think of him all day long? could you even see yourself loving him even when he's old gray?
that's always what i like to answer for myself....and usually when i get to that last question, i realize it's lust. bummer!
good luck to you!
2006-11-21 03:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation (lust) generally lasts 3-4 months. 30 days of seeing a boy does not equal love. After you're been dating him 9-10-12 months, you can decide if it's love.
2006-11-21 03:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that is love. because it is when you can not get away from away from someone for a long time. and that person always puts a smile on your face no matter what. i have been in this situation before. i loved some one even in the first month. well i hope that this solves your situation.
2006-11-21 03:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its love you will last a lot longer than 3 months if its lust you will be gone after the first night
2006-11-21 03:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by john1313nap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gives you butterflies in your stomach every time he calls or says your name then it is love otherwise it is just plain ol lust. Love is special and after being with a person for a long time they never get old, that is how you know.
2006-11-21 03:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by lucyloulady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just hang on for a while. Keep going like ye are and it will progress natrually.
He sounds lovely and by the way you portray him you sound like you are deeply in love
2006-11-21 03:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its both you might just be afraid of commiment becuaeyou never lasted long then 3-4 months give yourself some time you seewhats best for you
2006-11-21 03:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by snclove2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I understood the question but if you haven't actually had sex with him I would say it is love. One month of knowing someone isn't very long.
2006-11-21 03:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's neither--I think you are infatuated and starting to relize your feelings for him.
However, you are still in the honeymoon stage. When you're in this stage you're disillusioned to some extent.
Good luck though!
2006-11-21 03:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds more like love than lust --- there should be always some lust in every relationship so dont worry about that
2006-11-21 03:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋